He gave me a sign a few weeks ago that he wanted more than just pupil/instructor relationship but I didn't respond in the way that he probably would have liked. Although deep down I wish I had now. Do I tell him how I really feel or just go and find another instructor?
2006-09-13 10:55:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The same thing happened to me...obviously driving instructors try it on with people..I never done anything about it..I got myself a new instructor..that's what you should do.
2006-09-13 10:59:44 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You say your a pupil and he is an instructor. Watch out !! If your under the age of 15, and with him wanting a relationship with you, it could be he is a pedophile. You go and find another instructor. It is not good for you to even think that way. Why would you violate this mans marriage and be a go between? Do not go that way. Do not tell him how you feel, as I think it is just a puppy love. Sounds like you've been around and I am gonna tell you this. Do not get involved with a married man. It is wrong and He can get into big time trouble , with you. I really don't think he wants anything to do with you. He could loose his job, his family and his reputation. You might want to think about that too. A young girls reputation, need not to be destroyed by a fling. So use your wisdom and please don't go there. Take care and may God bless and guide you, Always.
2006-09-13 21:22:26 · answer #2 · answered by Norskeyenta 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAN, ARE YOU CRAZY???????
Walk away from that creep cause it just might be a small fling for you but a major highway wreck for his wife. It might cause he and his wife to break up and it might be a few years of hell for her after that.
I listened to Uma Thurman talk about her broken marriage and she said that a good friend told her to expect it to take 3 years before getting over it.
Imagine that you could mess up this guy's wife for the next 3 years or more just because you want to sleep with him and yet you know that it is not going anywhere since he is married.
Just walk away - but if he makes a pass at you, remind him that he is married. Your words just might save his wife a lot of pain.
Don't do it. Also, I have noticed that these days people don't take break-ups that well so you might just be asking for much worse than a really bad fight ...... if ya know what I mean.
My advice: HAUL YA LITTLE *** OUTTA THERE AND GO FIND SOME OTHER SINGLE GUY.....AND HOPE HE DOES NOT CHEAT ON YOU.
2006-09-13 18:28:04 · answer #3 · answered by JiveSly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's married...that means off limits. I'm sure if you were married, you'd probably be pissed off to find out that everytime he's supposed to be working, what he's really doing is flirting and cheating (or attempting to). When you look back at yourself, would you want to remember yourself as 'that cheap **** that stole someone's husband for a few days of pleasure? P.S. If he's still married, anything you do would definetely be VERY short term-married guys, who have that type of job, are NOT i repeat NOT about to give up their families etc for a mistress.
If this answer seems cruel, i apologize, but this is the truth.
2006-09-13 18:00:56 · answer #4 · answered by Drisana R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another driving instructor. He is a married man.
2006-09-13 17:58:39 · answer #5 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
get another instructor. This is starting to sound like a whole lot of hurt for you.
2006-09-13 17:58:45 · answer #6 · answered by oldmomma 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will end up hurt and will hurt his wife, You can get a nice single guy, Love loves you you are special and deserve better than this. you will have to give account of your life on judgement day.
2006-09-13 17:59:26 · answer #7 · answered by guysmithdenise 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT!!
Married men who are willing to cheat on their wives are losers with no morals who will toss you aside the same ways he's tossing his wife!
2006-09-13 18:13:27 · answer #8 · answered by christine a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, when he's driving you out to a safe spot. drop over and polish his knob...he'll be sure to pass you is you do a good job too!
2006-09-13 17:57:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
go for it,,, next time your in the car,, just go for it,,,,,
2006-09-13 17:58:36 · answer #10 · answered by Rooster 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋