I am female, I didn't think females got like this :(. It's not painful but the more aroused I get without "activity" the more uncomfortable I feel. I don't understand this...anyone else (female) like this???
2006-09-13 10:46:12 · 13 answers · asked by RainaDeLaSol 2 in Science & Mathematics ➔ Biology
A simple answer would be, don't let yourself get aroused.
Sexual activity should be within a marriage. Before marriage the pure thing to do is stop before getting aroused. That is for the male and female. No sex alone or together before marriage.
This is actually the Catholic teaching. It is simple and and it makes sense. Although anything worthwhile is usually not easy.
So the rule is to not watch or think or do anything which causes arousal to yourself or the other person until after you are married, (to each other) and will complete the sexual arousal with intercourse and without birth control.
The number and timing of children can effectively be controlled by using natural family planning. (not the old rhythm method).
Natural family planning works. NFP.
There are training classes for this no chemical, no apparatus, no hormone method of family planning.
You can call the nearest Catholic Church and ask about classes.
The links in the sources are excellent and will give you the basic information and then some.
God Bless You, ;-)
2006-09-14 07:14:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she defiantly needs professional therapy. I would say the best thing you can do as a boyfriend is help her find someone to go to and let her know that it is ok with you if you do not engage in sex right. Be there for her and make sure that instead of sex you are there to comfort her, support her, hug her/cuddle and kiss her. Show love to her in a way that makes her feel comfortable with you. She will grow closer to you and respect you a ton for it. It may suck since you wont be fooling around but between your support and the professional help she can get over this. After she has gone through therapy and had some time, I would let her make the first move and even possibly put off sex a couple of times just to really send the message that its her you care about not just sex. Let her take it to the next level each time, she will become really comfortable with you and ultimately you will have a very strong bond that is greater than her past.
2016-03-27 00:12:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my studies, I have found out you cramp because the muscles are moving. In other words contracting as if you were being intimate. There is "nothing" there for them to "work" off of. So, instead you are causing them to strain, causing you the cramps. You are healthy there is nothing wrong with you.
2006-09-13 11:04:14 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why it happens, but I do know it does. I think the reason some people don't experience this is because they always relieve themselves in some way. I would ask a doctor so that you can ease your mind.
2006-09-13 11:22:16 · answer #4 · answered by chris' angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heres a guess, by asking this question you may be trying to get involved in a sexual flirting chat. ITs normal and natural. Im certian that be now you are quite aware of your feelings
2006-09-14 04:33:25 · answer #5 · answered by aprilx4u 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I dont know the answer to that.men call it blue balls.but you should definately do something about it.there are more than plenty of men who would be willing to help you out.or if you are too shy , take matters into your own hands.
2006-09-14 09:00:20 · answer #6 · answered by Alex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay pure until you find a suitable spouse and get married to him.Then don't get aroused until you are married.
2006-09-14 20:39:49 · answer #7 · answered by CHS 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Simple: blood engorgement
2006-09-13 11:06:25 · answer #8 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It might be something hormonal. I suggest you talk to your gynecologist about this problem.
2006-09-13 10:49:08 · answer #9 · answered by VanMan6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
want my phone number?
2006-09-13 10:49:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋