2006-09-13 10:32:49 · 14 answers · asked by bertha 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I can't really give you a good answer because there weren't enough details in your question. However, if you're that unhappy, tell him, and then it may be necessary for you to make plans to leave.
2006-09-13 10:36:27 · answer #1 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know why you feel this way, but first I would start by sitting and having a long talk about it. Everyone gets tired of their S/O at some point, just need to work it out together. Make a list of the things that annoy you, and have him do the same. That way you both can try to address any of these problem areas. Don't forget the person you fell in love with, they are still there somewhere.
Good Luck
2006-09-13 17:37:19 · answer #2 · answered by darwinlambeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember why you married him. You probably can't stand living with him because he doesn't do things the way you would do them, but how boring would a marriage be if he were just like you. Take a deep breath and if you love him over look the things that are bugging you.
2006-09-13 17:39:28 · answer #3 · answered by schmidtjal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to provide more details. How can I be expected to answer a deep and penetrating question like that if I don't know anything about the situation.
how long married?
kids?
history - good, bad, indifferent?
husband - habits, etc.?
what specifically makes it so you can't stand living with him?
FP
2006-09-13 17:38:13 · answer #4 · answered by F. Perdurabo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say you really don't know someone until you've live with them. It's not unusual for married couples to have different apartments now a days. things aren't the way it use to be. Get your own apartment or sit down with him and explain why you feel that way. Tell him what he needs to do more or less of and what you will do more of or less of. You two need to compromise with each other. Good luck.
2006-09-13 17:37:38 · answer #5 · answered by Mello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't stand living with him, then you don't love him. That simple. Time to move on I would say.
2006-09-13 18:43:16 · answer #6 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First get some counselling and if you still feel the same then you might have to live in separate parts of a large house.
2006-09-13 17:39:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with him about the things that bother you. Communication is very important in a marriage. Maybe he isn't aware he's doing things that are bothering you. If you've already tried that you could try going to a marriage counselor together.
2006-09-13 17:36:52 · answer #8 · answered by Byakuya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good question!!!!since you can't very well say i love you but i can't stand you and i'm going to go get my own apt. but i still want to be married, i suggest do what i do... when he gets on your nerves do something that you think will get on his nerves just as bad. works for me.
2006-09-13 17:38:35 · answer #9 · answered by sbound_40 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you get married? don tell me you love him. and go live on a tiny island where you can enjoy your own company
2006-09-13 17:39:12 · answer #10 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋