would you sign it if you really love the guy and would like to have a family and kids with him? Or should you marry sb. else who really love you and wouldn't ask you to sign pre-nup agreement. confused and please help.
2006-09-13 10:28:31 · 16 answers · asked by 1001Questions 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Love is love, Money is MONEY...
2006-09-18 01:25:35 · answer #1 · answered by Juliette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was against this kind of agreement but I think it's necessary>
Take a lawyer of your own and protect your rights as well because marriage is a common partnership> Love has nothing to do with inconveniences, the pre nup just protect the two of you if the situation get worse> If everything will be OK it will stay a piece of paper> Follow your heart but listen your lawyer
2006-09-21 12:50:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's rude and selfish, yet somewhat understandable, for someone to want to take a parachute with them into the marriage. I wonder why people get married at all sometimes. Okay, if you two really love each other and need this type of security you could sign a REASONABLE prenuptual agreement. I wouldn't sign anything that said I had to leave with just the clothes on my back (figure of speech--make sure you will get a reasonable settlement).
2006-09-13 17:37:17 · answer #3 · answered by DJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't know about a pre-naptural but I just paused for a second to use the check spelling and it said, no such word pillock! To be honest all this pre-nuptial business suggests that the only thing that the person who insists the other gets to sign, is in love with is his/her money.
2006-09-13 17:34:15 · answer #4 · answered by Raymo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prenup is a loud siren telling you to break it off and find someone who has trust, integrity, and character.
This kind of stuff is such a disgrace to the institute of marriage and an insult to the person being asked to agree to it.
To answer your question, no, he does not love you, he distrusts you and holds in in suspicion. Is that how you want your marriage to be? You looked at like some sort of unworthy person? Because that is what he sees you as.
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Marriage joins a man and a woman as one. everything is theirs together. If not, then it is not a marriage, it is a get out of jail free ticket for him and he plans on redeaming it once he is tired of you.
Please don't do it and find a real man.
I hope the best for you
2006-09-13 17:41:13 · answer #5 · answered by Martin M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it if i were you. It doesn't mean that he doesn't love you but he needs to protect what is his before the two of you do get married. Just sign it and get on with your life together. If he didn't love you he would be leaving you instead of having you sign papers to move on with your marriage...
2006-09-13 17:33:15 · answer #6 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sign it and marry him. You want a guy who thinks ahead and prepares for disaster even if he doesn't want/expect it will happen.
That's the kind of guy who will buy a plunger for the toilet, nobody wants to use it, but damn it's a good thing if it's there and you need it.
Nobody expects to get divorced when they marry, but it's a fact of life that over 50% of them now end that way. There's no getting around it.
2006-09-13 17:32:14 · answer #7 · answered by 006 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he still loves you. He is getting some advice from another party and trying to make sure he is safe. It's just a precaution for both of you. Sign it and put it behind you.
2006-09-13 19:23:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I plan to have my future husband sign one and I want to sign one for him as well...have both lawyers present...it's just insurance...you have car and health insurance but do you expect to wreck your car or get cancer? No. Especially when half of all marriages fail...but that does mean you shouldn't get married? No. We all take chances and risks and you take chances and risks when you fall in love as well. You love him, he loves you. But, only you can decide to sign or not.
2006-09-13 17:38:28 · answer #9 · answered by justjerra_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that guy is more worried abt his assests and money than his feelings for u... he should trust u if he wants to get married to u...
im sorry to tell u this but his not in love with you... if he asked u to sign a Prenup then his scared of something and that something is u....
2006-09-13 17:35:45 · answer #10 · answered by beautysexychick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him what would it mater if you signed it or not? I wouldn't look to much into it, he need to protect himself, Look at all the horriable things people do, (not saying you are one of them) you just never know
2006-09-13 17:49:09 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋