i thought about suiside and iv been drinking alot and taking alot of over the counter drugs
2006-09-13 10:26:51 · 9 answers · asked by tony t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
that's not good. :(. u are not being a Healthy, Positive, Productive member of society.
why are u giving ur wife a "reason" to say she's glad she left you?? u gotta pick urself up and Start Over. for your OWN good, no one else. u have to fix urself up so that u will be good for someone else. u can't expect to attract or maintain a good relationship w/ anyone if u can't handle things in ur life. that is why it's so important to always Learn, Grow, and be Positive. seek what is Healthy, and u will learn from ur mistakes. be a Better man thru this, and prove to urself, and ur ex, that u WERE worth something, and she made a mistake. so instead of wishing she came back, start looking toward a new future w/ a Woman who APPRECIATES, RESPECTS, ADMIRES, LOVES, CARES, TRUSTS you...and one that you can appreciate, respect, admire, love, care, trust... that is worth finding, and searching for, and building yourself up to Be. the past is in the past, and it's gonna take time to let it go. but u CAN do something w/ yourself. u can learn. u can grow. u can change. u can't bring her back, u can't change her mind, but u can Change Yourself. to become better. worthy. and find someone who is worth of you. good luck, and don't give up hope. life is full of ups and downs.. it's up to u to seek the Ups so that u can get thru the Downs.
2006-09-13 10:33:43 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All this shows how on another day, how strongly you will love again. It hurts now, but one day you will be with someone new, and you'll be on the opposite side of today's feelings. You will look back again and again in your life and realize this break up was one of the best things to ever happen to you. It's okay to self medicate, but take it easy and realize it is alright to feel sorrow and loss. Don't be ashamed of it. Deal with it and you'll get through it. It can only get better than this. You will see. :)
2006-09-13 17:48:49 · answer #2 · answered by craigrr929 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one is worth killing yourself for. Try to talk to friends and family so that you can get all your feelings out. It will hurt, but not forever. Drinking is only going to make matters worse, so try to lay off the booze and pills. It only fogs your memory for so long. Get some help through your church or counseling as well if need be. But please don't kill yourself.
2006-09-13 18:47:47 · answer #3 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tony I can imagine what your going through been there, you just have to p/u the pieces and move on...I look back now and I say WHAT WAS I THINKING ?
2006-09-13 17:31:34 · answer #4 · answered by Hammer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No relationship good or bad is worth killing yourself for.
Sober up and go find somebody else.
2006-09-13 17:31:35 · answer #5 · answered by rouble ( 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel i going through a breakup i does the same thing i think we both need to try to help ok.
2006-09-13 17:30:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no woman is worth throwing your life away for...pull yourself together and get up and live again...there are lots of fish in the sea..go fishing !!!!..i care and god loves you...good luck and god bless
2006-09-13 17:34:43 · answer #7 · answered by va8326 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see my question and you will realize that you are NOT alone:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Auo8o8R8BzdP0q88NARbpK3sy6IX?qid=20060913132247AAdSVYH
2006-09-13 17:29:46 · answer #8 · answered by rhiannon2797 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED GOD!!! GO TO CHURCH DUDE SERIOUSLY!!
2006-09-13 17:32:44 · answer #9 · answered by **What??** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋