cheating on me and i reall love him what should i do?
2006-09-13 10:25:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Do what you want, but once a cheater, always a cheater.
2006-09-13 10:27:47 · answer #1 · answered by just browsin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheated on you once, he might do it again, and break your heart again. If you really love him, explain your feelings to him, and say that you will take him back if and only if he doesn't cheat. But usually if he cheats, it means that he was bored with you, or that he doesn't love you, or is not that committed to you. So think about it before you give your heart away to him again.
My advice...move on. You want somebody who will respect you more than that. But that doesn't mean he can't have a second chance.
2006-09-13 17:35:46 · answer #2 · answered by ht_butterfly27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you take him back it's because whatever he had with the other girl didn't work out and he'll just stick around until he finds someone else. Have some self respect and don't take back this user. What is it you love about him? That he's there when he doesn't have anything else going on? Think about it.
2006-09-13 17:29:41 · answer #3 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love someone who was cheating on you and you want to go back to that? Are you serious?
At least make it clear to him why you broke up and that you are not going to tolerate it.
2006-09-13 17:27:50 · answer #4 · answered by teef_au 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get lost. Then avoid contact, so you can get over him. Hang out with friends, go date yourself. A guy that cheated on you once will do it again. Find a better one :-)
2006-09-13 17:28:16 · answer #5 · answered by sdfjkl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well mandy,that would depend on how much your feelings are in tune with him.what i mean by that is relationships are bound to have problems.nobody is perfect and it takes a life time to know someone.you have to determine if you honestly love this man and take it from there.there is no right or wrong answer in a relationship.just as long as you do what comes from your heart.take care.
2006-09-13 17:30:40 · answer #6 · answered by bobby31_1970 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are better than that and never have to share your guy.
He is not worth your time or energy
he hurt you....he is just not good enough
Sure you still love him and you might always have feeling for him...but sometime love just isn't enough!
do you self a favor and do not set your self up for that type of pain again...
2006-09-13 17:31:45 · answer #7 · answered by Em W. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wonder why you value yourself so little that you would allow someone to treat you that way and then still love them. Then you should get therapy so that you can learn to have enough self respect to be in a relationship with someone who treats you with respect.
2006-09-13 17:30:56 · answer #8 · answered by thatengineer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget men.
Concentrate on your school work. Your english is horrible. You need to make something out of yourself instead of thinking about guys.
2006-09-13 17:27:27 · answer #9 · answered by Trollhair 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not go out with him---continue with your new life--what is up with people that they always want to go back to someone u hurt them and they broke up with them for that purpose
huh??? get a life
2006-09-13 17:33:19 · answer #10 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋