I m 27yrs old and my boyfrnd who is married is 38 yrs old.I luv to settled down but he is not ready to marry me.He says i have to wait for the rite time.Dont know when that rite time will come.Dont want to leave his wife and son.Never spends much of time with me.Will come to meet me when he wish to.Never takes me out.What should i do?
2006-09-13 09:59:14 · 22 answers · asked by priya79 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well honey let me tell you from experience that following a married man is like a dog chasin a car, do yourself a favor find a good man who loves you
2006-09-13 10:01:16 · answer #1 · answered by pisof49 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's females like you, who I hate.. (sorry to be so vague) But the man is married. Where is your dignity and your self respect? Why do you have the need for another women's man. And to tell you the truth he don't respect you much. Your stupid to him. Nothing more than a piece of ***. He will never leave his wife for you, cause he knows your likely to be sleeping with someone else husband... You need to get a grip on life and your own man... And this was so stupid for you to say out loud. And stupid for anyone to give you advise on how not to be hurt by a MARRIED man.. HE'S MARRIED. A CHEATER. A LIAR. And he's sleeping with you.. I don't know him but whoever he is I don't like him..
And nothing goods going to come to you...
Words from a married women.....
2006-09-13 10:15:01 · answer #2 · answered by The'Truth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him! Guys like this don't EVER intend to leave their wives. They have you on the side for excitement, so why mess up their personal life with a wife and child if you are willing to be his side-kick? Dump him now cuz you will never have what you want. Plus, you should have more faith in yourself and find someone that is single and can give you a normal relationship.
2006-09-13 10:02:31 · answer #3 · answered by Tracy O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you this but you are wasting your time. He will never leave his wife and he admits that he loves her. You are just a fling and he does not love you, a man like that will say anything to you, just to get you too have sex with him.
Never get involved with a married man because he will not leave his wife. I know because I was like you, I was in love with a married man too and his wife called me one day and she told me that they was having another baby. He never mentioned to me that he was having another child, I was only aware of the one child. Too make a long story short I ended up getting hurt because I believed in all the lies that he was telling me.
I have moved on and now I am married, you will meet someone else. (Good Luck)!!!
2006-09-13 10:09:41 · answer #4 · answered by Vicky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where is your self respect? Why would anyone ever want to be second best, to be "the other woman" that people whisper about behind her back when they see her? You need to get a grip on reality here. He is never going to leave his wife and son. He is only telling you what you want to hear so he can still keep you on the side. Move on to someone who can give you what you need, and start respecting yourself!
2006-09-13 10:57:22 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you chose an "unavailable" man because there is something in you that does not really want to commit to a relationship. Perhaps you fear abandonment so you pick someone "safe" that YOU can leave if it gets too scary. Sit down & think about it. Seek help if you need it. You deserve better than crumbs.
2006-09-13 10:51:44 · answer #6 · answered by girlfriend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop and think about your first sentence. It says that you are in love with a married man. That's all you need to know. You even said it yourself: he doesn't even want to leave his wife and kids. It's really a question of morals. Do you think it's morally right to be with a married man?
2006-09-13 10:16:45 · answer #7 · answered by scarlet rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN
RUN AWAY
FAST
he's not leaving his wife for you. he'll break your heart. he's using you right now. Don't fall for the lines...just cut him off. you need a man who respects you and his wedding vows...even if you got him, could you trust him? he's do the same thing to you that he's doing to her. and she might find out and come after you--or name you as a correspondant in a divorce action...now your reputation will be shot. there is going to be no right time, so move on
2006-09-13 10:05:09 · answer #8 · answered by coquinegra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave! It is never ever right to get into a relationship with a married man. If you stay with him, you are causing him to commit adultry and you are putting yourself into a position where you can be hurt. It's wrong, and will hurt both of you. Not to mention his wife. (and his children if he has any)
2006-09-13 10:04:06 · answer #9 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I gues you both r Indians...
and See the rite time will never come , and if U like to live like a keep .... U will never wish that so you know what to do,,, its will be difficult for u as u love him but start making a diff before you get preg. hope u got it.
2006-09-13 10:32:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋