i was with a great guy, admitedly a few years older than me, for about 9 months & i really loved him & he loved me.anyway, after a few things like his fone credit suddenly going down & him being on his computer ALOT, & a few other things tht seemed a bit odd i relised that he must be seeing someone else. i confronted him about it & everything i suspeced was right. he was seeing someone else, & worst of all he had been seeing her for over a year. i relised i was like his little affair thing. i told him that he had to choose between us cos it wouldnt be fair on any of us if he didnt. i mananged to get the other girls fone number & spoke to her about it. we both cried & deceied that we would just see who he chose. He chose her. i cried so hard, i loved him so much. since it all happened he hasnt spoken to me and i got a call from the girl saying that she hated me . I thought i hated him but in the last month i have relised thay i still love him. I dont know what to do, tell him or not?
2006-09-13 09:51:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm very sorry someone you love had to do that to you, but I need to tell you the truth about this one. If he cheated on you, he was only toying around with you. You were very nice just to give him a chance to continue his relationship with you. But now you know that he doesn't love you. Even if it hurts, you have to say "good bye." He's not worth your time.
2006-09-13 09:58:55 · answer #1 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! NO! NO! Don't tell him you love him. You deserve better than a man who used you big time. He chose someone else and the other woman is stupid enough to deserve him. Any man who uses you like this one did needs to be pitched to the curb. It is going to hurt for awhile but you will find someone who is just as deserving as you and then you will realize just how much better than this guy you really are.
2006-09-13 16:58:41 · answer #2 · answered by k s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gotta move on if he chose the other girl. then let him go you cant force him of loving you right? and telling him that you still love him? is not a good idea!! it will only make it worst if he say that he doesnt love you anymore! (show some pride)
2006-09-13 17:04:17 · answer #3 · answered by francesca d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't call him. All you will be doing is walking back into the same thing as before. Just forget about him. If you start going out with others it will get easier and you will forget about him.
2006-09-13 16:56:12 · answer #4 · answered by xeson1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not tell him! If even you told him, then what? Be with someone who lied to you for a year. Be with someone that doesnt not care about your feelings. Be with someone that doesnt make you feel special in any way. Move on because he definitely already has.
2006-09-13 17:02:43 · answer #5 · answered by booyah-baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wash that man right out of your hair!
you don't need any man who can't decide who he wants to be with. wish that other girl well and get on with your
life. if you are taking bets, mine is that he will soon
be looking at a new conquest. my experience is that
a cneating a**ed man is a cheating a**ed man is a
cheating a**ed man.
now for another cliche but it says it; pick yourself up,
dust yourself off, and start all over again. good luck.
2006-09-13 16:59:21 · answer #6 · answered by agedlioness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him, it won't matter. He made his decision. More importantly, this is a guy who CHEATED on you and LIED to you and DECEIVED you for a YEAR! You need to ask yourself why you want to be with a guy who behaves like that much of an azzhole.
2006-09-13 16:54:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what u are saying this has happen to me to . i just want to tell u leave him along because it will get worst i had to learn the hard way.
2006-09-13 16:56:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. Talk about it to your friends. JUst move on. hes' not worth it. Wasting all your time then dropsyou and goes to that other girl. tell him how you feel.
2006-09-13 16:55:54 · answer #9 · answered by i ♥ ice cream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got your answer, he doesn't want you. Perhaps you need to accept that and move on. You have wasted enough time on this two timer.
2006-09-13 16:55:08 · answer #10 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋