I went out too part with my ex. bf who is my current bf though we were seperated at the time best friend so i thought i could trust him. We both got drunk and had sex i am now pregnant. What i did not now was that my ex. bf was married at the time for only a month his last gf it was a quickie wedding who had been pregnant it turned out to be a tubal. They were seperated at the time not anymore apparently. I wrote him a letter telling him i was pregnant and she found it.The calls and the messages have not stopped she even came to my college and called me out of class!
2006-09-13 09:27:21 · 13 answers · asked by jackie w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Damn... the next time she calls, tell her that it's over between you and her drunken husband. If she wants to be mad at someone, tell her also, that her drunken husband somehow overlooked to tell you he was married, so she should direct her anger toward him. Let her know that if you decide to seek child support from her drunken husband, then your attorney (not you) will contact him and any visitation will be worked out in court... so there should no further need for her to contact you.
2006-09-13 09:41:48 · answer #1 · answered by E. Gads 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her not to pull you out of class again!!! You need all the help you can get with the English language and writing properly!! Then explain to her that you are both just little hors that have been used as a sperm receptacle for the same guy...I'm sure he'll be moving on from the both of you shortly....that's how it works!!
2006-09-13 09:40:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't have been having sex in the first place. and don't blame the drink you had full capacity of your faculties and CHOSE not to adhere to them.
See what happens when you have out of wedlock sex? You didn't even do enough to find out his history since you have been broken up, because you didn't care. Well, this is the concequences of your actions.
What is happening to you now is your fault and this other woman has every right to be beligerant towards you however, the husband is not out of this either he is equally at fault, but it was your question.
I feel sorry for the kids only, in this situation
2006-09-13 09:32:41 · answer #3 · answered by Martin M 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Save the calls if you can for proof and then get a restraining order (also known as an Order of Protection). You need to protect yourself and your unborn child.
Good luck.
2006-09-13 09:31:35 · answer #4 · answered by Vanessa T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried telling her that her issue isnt with you its with her HUSBAND since you had no idea that he was married and he withheld this information from you,also have you told her that what shes doing is making as A SS out of herself not to mention that it is very very illegal try to ignore her and if she keeps it up then take your caller id and file a report for her harrassing you she needs to grow up.
2006-09-13 09:34:09 · answer #5 · answered by CaliMa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her that she has to leave you alone. Then tell her husband that he should have told you he was married and you should also tell him to make his wife leave you alone . Yu might want to get help from your councilor at college or find someone you can talk to but you definetely are going to need help with this one. If you have to you can charge her with harrassment. Talk to someone who can help you.
2006-09-13 09:39:01 · answer #6 · answered by melthule 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she keeps harassing you make a police report. Telephone harassment is one thing but threatening and following you are another. Stay safe.
2006-09-13 09:30:17 · answer #7 · answered by shizzlechit 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a lawyer to write up a civil restraining order.
2006-09-13 09:30:09 · answer #8 · answered by wmp55 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lackie-
the real problem is that you're having a baby, not his junk. You better prepare for that little mom
2006-09-13 09:35:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BY THE TIME YOUR IN COLLEGE YOU SHOULD KNOW....YOU ALWAYS REAP WHAT YOU SOW...THATS ALL WE NEED IN THIS WORLD IS ANOTHER UNWANTED CHILD....NOW THE POOR BABY HAS TO REAP WHAY HIS STUPID MOTHER SOWED....NEXT TIME YOUR DRUNK AND WANT TO SPREAD YOUR LEGS USE A VIBRATOR...........
2006-09-13 10:21:02 · answer #10 · answered by BLOODHOUND 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋