I went out too part with my ex. bf who is my current bf though we were seperated at the time best friend so i thought i could trust him. We both got drunk and had sex i am now pregnant. What i did not now was that my ex. bf was married at the time for only a month his last gf it was a quickie wedding who had been pregnant it turned out to be a tubal. They were seperated at the time not anymore apparently. I wrote him a letter telling him i was pregnant and she found it.The calls and the messages have not stopped she even came to my college and called me out of class!
2006-09-13 09:21:26 · 6 answers · asked by jackie w 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I am under a lot of stress as it is and i have told her more than once that it was an accident and i did not now he was married but still she persists!
2006-09-13 09:22:07 · update #1
how do i get her too stop???????
2006-09-13 09:25:25 · update #2
if she continues to harass you, contact the police nd tell them the situation, Have them write a report, and speak to her about leaving you alone. Then take the report to the courts and file a restraining order.
2006-09-13 09:30:03 · answer #1 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she persists in harrassing you, you may have to get the law involved. You may need to give this sometime for it to sink in to everyone. You and he will then need to figure out together what you want to do about this situation. He can involve her after the two of you have had a chance to talk. Whether he stays with her or not, you will need to be prepared for either situation. She needs to stay away from you. If she does not, get the law involved.
2006-09-13 16:34:45 · answer #2 · answered by gr8rn89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might be afraid of you. She is with him and is afraid you are going to want him back and she knows that there will be child support issues. I would tell her to please respect you and to leave you alone and that you simply just wanted to infor her husband that you are infact pregnant with his child. If in the future it becomes an issue and even if not you need to get a lawyer and talk to him or her about the issue and see if you need papers for child support and maybe a restraining order for her if she starts to threaten you or stalking you.
2006-09-13 16:28:32 · answer #3 · answered by fleur_loser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am guessin you are asking what to do...well make him choose between you or his so-called wife....if he can't be man enough to make that decision then hit him up for child support...
2006-09-13 16:26:46 · answer #4 · answered by angelblueyes200 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play rocks paper scissors. nah i kidding. if you truly love him try to make yourself appear better than the other girl.
2006-09-13 16:29:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What exactly is your question?
2006-09-13 16:24:02 · answer #6 · answered by s_sill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋