I am getting married next month and everyone that I have told seems to ask the same question..."Are you sure?" Is this a sign that maybe I need to rethink this?
2006-09-13 09:17:31 · 15 answers · asked by mac5doc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not at all. I assume you HAVE thought about it. Many believe marriage is a terrible thing. Thankfully, they are wrong. Good luck, and enjoy your marriage.
2006-09-13 09:46:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a normal question from people who aren't real close to you and the relationship your in. My worry here is that you actually are starting to doubt the idea of getting married just based upon what people say. You need to evaluate how you really feel about this person and the future that is being presented to you. As long as you are happy and confident about your life and future to come then it doesn't matter what other people think or say.
2006-09-13 16:21:30 · answer #2 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you feel that you need to re-think this. A lot of people today just know how tough it is being married. It isn't easy and yes there is the option of divorce down the road, but you should NEVER go into a marriage knowing that someday you can get divorced. If you know you are going to work at this and you are totally commited, then don't worry.
2006-09-13 16:20:28 · answer #3 · answered by JUNONNKI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever hear the saying, "love is blind"? Yeah well sometimes this is very true. If your CLOSE friends and relatives are the ones asking you, I'd suggest you sit down and think it out because they have an outsider's perspective and may see things that you might overlook becuase of your 'love goggles'. If, after objectively thinking about it and you think they're wrong, tell them to piss off and leave you to your happiness. If you think they're right, you know what you have to do...
2006-09-13 16:24:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTELY NOT! listen, I met my fiance 3 months ago and we are getting married next month! I know that sounds crazy and everyone is sure to tell me thats what they think. But it doesnt matter what people say, listen to what your heart says. Do you truly love him and are you truly ready? if so, then stick with it because its your life not theirs!
good luck and congrats
2006-09-13 16:20:59 · answer #5 · answered by I Love my boys 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely it's people with failed relationships who are just looking out for you. It's normal, just as you would ask your friend - before they make that dive. YOU know what is right. Don't question yourself, follow your heart.
2006-09-13 16:22:32 · answer #6 · answered by Carey L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel it in your heart, you are ready. They ask you that because they think they should ask. When asked? Just say of course I'm sure. If you are
2006-09-13 16:20:50 · answer #7 · answered by jepa8196 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I wouldn't just dismiss what your loved ones are saying. This is a big deal. It's your marriage. Please use your head as well as your heart. You have every right to take your time.
2006-09-13 16:42:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes looking back on my 1st marriage i didn't realize until it was too late now divorced
2006-09-13 16:41:25 · answer #9 · answered by Raineybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart, not your head. Do what makes your heart smile. That takes alot of soul searching, and it will help.
2006-09-13 16:20:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋