(I'm a guy) I want to know if this girls likes me. First off I'm a shy guy.Next thing is she looks at me when i look at her, but i quickly look away to not make it look not so noticeable.She is in the same class as me.I sometimes find her starring at me from across the room, as well as always seeing her near by during lunch.I remeber some of her friends use to come up to me, and asked me if I had feelings for her. Ofcourse i said yes.But now i wonder if she really likes me or not, i'm confused, and i just don't want to approach her and ask her.I do have strong feelings towards her, but before i ever make a move i want to be sure that she likes me. can anyone help me? If any louck or so please email me to colombian_sensacional@hotmail.com
2006-09-13 09:10:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-09-15 19:38:47 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I gather you're in high school? That is a rough age to be when you're starting to want to relate to someone you think is interested in you. If her friends have already asked you if you like her, that would be a good clue that she is interested in you. I would suggest that you let one of her friends know how shy you are, and how attracted you are to her. Then, if you take her out on a date, make it very informal so both of you will be comfortable. Don't push for anything more than a friendship at first, because that's the way good relationships are built!
2006-09-13 09:14:21 · answer #2 · answered by sunflowerjean63 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she likes you, and most girls want the guy to make the first move so if you want anything to happen with her then you just need to get over being shy and say hi!! Flirt a little, pass her a note, tell her she looks cute today, ask her how her weekend was etc. Just be yourself, don't try any "pick-up lines"...most girls don't like that stuff....ask one of her close friends if she's dating anybody...they'll get the point and hopefully hook ya'll up. Good luck! :)
2006-09-13 09:36:12 · answer #3 · answered by justjerra_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she likes you, she will look at you, smile at you, sometimes stare at you, look at you when she thinks you're not looking, ask questions of your friends about you, and generally make sure she's around where you ARE.
Guess what, she likes you, so go ask her to go to a show with you or something, before she changes her mind.
2006-09-13 09:14:47 · answer #4 · answered by fiddlesticks9 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Likey likeyyy. My mate used to attempt this even as she first moved from Manchester. She's lived in Birmingham for distinctive three hundred and sixty 5 days and he or she has stopped. bypass to Birmingham,uk =) haha.
2016-11-26 21:44:31 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeh she prolly likes you same thing has happend to me what you need to do is talk to her theres nothing wrong with being afraid to getshot down by her (I was afraid of getting shot down by girls) but trust me just tell her how you feel when you two are alone (ask to talk to her in private) and the rest is history.
2006-09-13 09:16:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she so likes you! she's getting her friends to come up to you and ask you. even if she isn't, she's obviously said something about you because they wouln't randomly come up there and ask you a question like that.. i'd go for it! (if it was a guy of course lol) ask her to dinner just to hang out and in a conversation just bring the subject up and be cool about it and see how it goes.
2006-09-13 09:30:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her!
After you do that, try flirting.
I know you're shy but come on, don't you think she's worth it? Don't let opportunities pass you by!
2006-09-13 09:11:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well all you have to do is just go out to her and ask her out she wont say no (i Hope). Give it a try! She might say yes
2006-09-13 09:12:52 · answer #9 · answered by Rebecca D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to make a move. she's probably shy too if she didn't ask you your self if you had feelings for her. if your that shy about it ask one of your friends to ask her out.
2006-09-13 09:14:44 · answer #10 · answered by sabine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋