My Boyfriend and I have not been as well as when we first started dating, He has lost his job and recked his car. He is critical or either just being honest but in a rude way. He never wants to go out. I stay at his house with him on the weekends and he just haves me wait there for him somtimes when he goes out with friends and somtimes doesn't come home that night when he goes out. But, his sister and I get along and she lives with him.
2006-09-13 09:05:55 · 26 answers · asked by unknown 3 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I would move on and if the sister is a true friend she will understand.
2006-09-13 09:14:21 · answer #1 · answered by Atana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow! How long have you been dating? There are definitely clues in your message that it's time to break up and here they are (keep in mind these are YOUR words):
1.He is critical or either just being honest but in a rude way.
2.He never wants to go out. I stay at his house with him on the weekends and
3.he just haves me wait there for him somtimes when he goes out with friends and
4.somtimes doesn't come home that night when he goes out.
This statement - "But, his sister and I get along and she lives with him" is not reason to stay together. Your investing time in HIM not her. Do yourself a favor and break it off now. You can still be friends with Sis - God bless!
2006-09-13 09:11:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
things are always great when a relationship is new , both people are trying to impress each other then after you get comfortable then you really start to see how the other person is. you say he lost his job, well then how can he afford to go out and party with his friends?? for someone who has no job or car he really has no businees being critical towards you & believe me if hes going out to find other women any woman with class wont want anything to do with a man with no job , no $$$ & no car. i say lose him but stay friends with his sister. just explain to her that you dislike the way he treats you & you think you deserve better and if shes a real friend she will agree. good luck
2006-09-13 09:31:33 · answer #3 · answered by Kris B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once the respect has gone, its time to go. He nevers wants to go out with you but at the same time you are at his house and he's gone with friends, thats the wake up call girl, its time to go, worse he knows you're there and still stays out all night. He's saying he doesn't care about your feeling and he's doing it for all the world(his friends, his sister) to see. You may feel sorry for him about losing his job, car but its not a valid reason for treating you like dirt you can only be there for someone if they allow you to be. Think about staying for much longer and his always being critical or rude may become verbal abuse AND IT GETS WORSE THEREAFTER. People can only treat you the way you allow them to.
You could still be friend with his sister after you break up.
2006-09-13 09:26:53 · answer #4 · answered by ayanagin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you talk to his sister and get along with her you should have no problem asking her questions. But i think you should just let him go slowly because of the fact that he actually leaves you there, and that you think about him being gone. Well actually you don't have to leave him, do the same thing don't visit for like a few days just pretend that your minding you p.'s and q.'s he'll eventually come crowling back if he doesn't I hope that you got the hint.
2006-09-13 09:13:46 · answer #5 · answered by bttmbubbles 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From a guys point of view, he is playing you girl. Why would he want things to change when he's getting the best of both worlds. You're coming over all the time and he still going out with his buddies any time he wants. Just don't start giving him money to go out. Then he will really have you where he wants you.
2006-09-13 09:09:43 · answer #6 · answered by smoothie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u decide
in my opinion at such tragic moments you should help him and hold him or else he might drop off the roof of his house if you break up with him.
Don't cause this guy pain. He's been through enough. I say, you should stay with him and keep him in reality. Keep him living. It isn't over. Everything could always be fixed. Just help him out.
P.S. I think he's rude cause he's just angry at the whole world right now... yeah. Goodluck.
2006-09-13 09:09:57 · answer #7 · answered by brother from QG 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Time to hit the road. You may have to give up being friends with his sister but if she is willing, then that's not a problem but she might likely side with him. But this isn't behavior that I would want to live with for any length of time.
2006-09-13 09:09:14 · answer #8 · answered by mamaloo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's going through some rough times. Stay with him a bit longer a try to talk to him. There's a good chance he could only be that way temporarily.
2006-09-13 10:15:07 · answer #9 · answered by true_skillzz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This guy sounds like a reck. wreck. recked. Yea what a reck. Domp him. He sonds bade. No goode. Kic him to the curbe.
2006-09-13 09:08:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋