Is it possible to a male and a female to be friends, even if the male is sexually attracted to the female?

Question

In my case as a man, I want to have sex with her and she like me only as a friend. i dont know what to do, because I like her as a friend too.

Answer 1

Sex is everywhere. But, friendship is rare. Savor and protect the friendship and pursue sexual pleasures elsewhere . . .for now.

Answer 2

. Yes! it's possible to be friend as long as you don't pass your limit. I have a male friend that's been wanting to have sex with me for the past 10 years sometimes he still ask. And my answer is still no, and we are best friend I don't feel anything for him other then the love I have for a true friend,we go out together we visit each other we cook at each others house we help each other out financial only when in need. we have an occasional drink now and then, he is now marry to a good women , I like her and I'm very happy for him ,but he still tell me he's not giving up that one day will be together and I tell him well!!!! when hell freezes up ,we'll aways be the best of friend and that's it. why ruin a beautifull honest relationship.He was friendly with my .boyfriend but didn't like him that much. So you see unless she has eyes for you ,don't try it or, you will lose a good friendship which are hard to find. If you two can have sex and remain friends go ahead make your day. Good luck.

Answer 3

It is possible to be friends and still be attracted to the person. You just have to be aware of where the "line" is.
Never know... She may decide to change her mind after a while too, always have hope. But dont disregard the friendship, especially if its a good one.

Answer 4

You'll lose a good friend if you pressure her. My advice would be for you to continue being her good friend. Then, if the chemistry eventually becomes right, you'll have your wish. The women I know (as well as myself) are suspicious when a guy only wants to "have sex" with us. "Making love" is how most women view sex, and it's seldom a "wham-bam" desire. Remember that a good relationship starts out by being good friends.

Answer 5

You don't want her as a friend and I'll use your words to prove it. "I want to have sex with her". That alone says you want more than friendship.

The answer is no, this type of situation cannot work. What is going to happen when she gets a boyfriend and he is having sex with him and since you are friends she tells you all about it?

Again, the answer is no.

Also, if all you want is sex you are pretty shallow. Walk away from her so she is not disrespected so badly. That is if you really do care about her.

Answer 6

Is it possible? Honestly, it sounds like it's all up to you. Are you willing to keep it in your pants for the sake of keeping the friendship, or are you willing to possibly lose the friendship for the sake of a shag?

She's made it clear where she stands. Now you need to figure out where you stand.

Answer 7

Be friends and never rule out her getting drunk and taking advantage of it then playing it off like you were both drunk and that it was a mistake until it happens again and you make a relationship out of it til you get sick of each other then you stop being friends and actually avoid each other do to the uncomfortable nature of the relationship.

Answer 8

No, because you will never do things like a friend. And the first chance you get you will drop a load in her presence.

Answer 9

You can only remain friends if you find someone else to be sexually attracted to.

Answer 10

Propably not - Unless you can definatly keep the relationship on nob sexual terms - Been there mate nightmare senario usually.