what do you do when you love and miss some one so much that it hurts and you know there is no chance to be back with this person.
2006-09-13 09:03:40 · 18 answers · asked by nikkie_girl_77 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hahahaha.....i was in the same spot, IM SO SORRY.. Its horrible. I was in love and she left me, it took me a couple years to not get all jacked up about it when ever i heard a love song or smelled her perfume. Time is the only remedy, i am truly sorry. Eventually, you will get over it, but you will never forget. I still hear this on song by michelle branch, accually two of em, "goodbye to you" and i dont know the name of it but it goes"if you want to i can save you, i can take you away from here..." Even now, i feel the pain. If you wanna talk MORE about it, e-mail me.
2006-09-13 09:08:30 · answer #1 · answered by Irish ME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there......
Only thing you can really do is hope for the best and try to find and get involved in things that will keep your mind occupied with other things. Even then it will still be hard but with time anything's possible. You have to find ways to not hurt anymore and build up the confidence again to get yourself out there and date again to find someone else. This may come after many months or perhaps to a year or so. But in the end things happen for a reason and someone else better may come along.
2006-09-13 16:08:27 · answer #2 · answered by Holla 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, there is little you can do other than speak with that person, and express how your feelings, possibly getting on atleast speaking terms (if your not there already).
Broken relationships ultimately end up in broken friendships and cold shoulder games for quite some time. Its a hard road to be on, and a hard one to deal with.
There is always a tomorow, whether or not you want it to come, but think of this as a chance to grow, try and focus on things about your past relationship that werent so great, realize that there are other people out there who are dieing to meet someone like you, and that maybe he/she was just a "bad fish" in a sea of thousands.
Life goes on, and people forgive and forget. In your case, Id try and attempt to find some closure and move on with your life, dont drag the past around with you as emotional baggage, for it will only continue to beat up the person you are on this inside.
Hope everything works out for you
2006-09-13 16:10:33 · answer #3 · answered by 3r1cW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you a story of my own. I was madly in love with a boy for 2 1/2 years and he proposed to me in february. in april he broke up with me because of some stupid fight we had, and because he wanted his ex GF back, she moved 4 years ago and just moved back. It was a shock, because we were both in love. Well I was so heart broken and had never cried so much in my entire life. I missed him every second, and I never wanted to be with anyone ever again. I worked, went to college, and went to bed that's it. My friends pulled me through and told me to wait because someone special and better will come along, and I didn't believe them. Sure enough, 6 months later I met a guy, and he is truly wonderful. Now its a year later and I'm egaged to this new guy and we are to be married in October. You just have to remember that even though you feel like you never want to move on, you have to. someone better will come along, because this guy that does come along will love you through thick and thin, not just when he choses to. Keep your head up and your prince will come!
good luck
2006-09-13 16:09:24 · answer #4 · answered by I Love my boys 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and socialize, give yourself a chance.
Hurt feelings do not last forever, don't think about it too much, because the more you think the more you get hurt.
Pretend you are not hurt.
Make new friends, go on with your life, what's the using crying over a spilt milk
2006-09-13 16:09:15 · answer #5 · answered by yulnores 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think there's always hope cause u can't get to love someone that much if he or she hasn't shown any interest in you...but begging is definitely not an option..try changing the music u are listening to;it can bring u bad memories...meet new people,do different things,unusual ones which will help u forget...ur old friends will also help..tell them about ur feelings;u'll feel better
2006-09-13 16:10:20 · answer #6 · answered by in3s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to deal with it the best you can i know this is a different but i love and miss someone so bad night and day till it nearly drives me in sane but i cant see them until i die i have that hurt i have learned to go on deal with it as life goes on
2006-09-13 16:08:09 · answer #7 · answered by fancey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on... it hurts but you can still show up unexpected at his house when his new girl is there and make yourself at home. I did this last night! It was funny. I even gave him a kiss when I left. i think he blushed.
2006-09-13 16:06:44 · answer #8 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just gotta go on with your life. You cant let it eat you up. You will meet someone new and you will fall in love again. Takes time, is all.
2006-09-13 16:06:47 · answer #9 · answered by ~~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew some way to tell you, but really you just have to start living again, try and get them off your mind , so you don't go crazy thinking about them
2006-09-13 16:09:05 · answer #10 · answered by inquiring mind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋