Why isn't losing your virginity beautiful anymore? It always has to be hot and sexy now, but I don't get it. It is supposed to be a beautiful thing. What are your opinions about it?
2006-09-13 08:36:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I agree with you. It's because they do not respect themselves and their bodies.
2006-09-13 09:23:42 · answer #1 · answered by honeyluv_2010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think becuz now a days, people don't look at sex the same way we used to. Now a days it seems like sex is just another daily activity. My first time was beautiful. It was also hot and sexy. I don't know what these kids are thinking in today's generation.
2006-09-13 16:16:05 · answer #2 · answered by baddest_ladybug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, i am impressed that you feel that it should be beautiful, and you are right. it is very special, and anyone who thinks it is about "hot and sexy" clearly has the wrong idea. it is, of course, sexy by nature, but trying to act out some x-rated fantasy for your first time is too much pressure and it takes away from what should be a wonderful memory.
2006-09-13 15:54:03 · answer #3 · answered by taylor619 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It still can be. Only guys and stupid girls who believe them think it should be "hot and sexy".
My first time was 'beautiful' and I can honestly say I have no regrets. I was mature enough (17) and it was with someone I had dated for a while and really cared about.
2006-09-13 15:40:02 · answer #4 · answered by Yahoo! Answers Chic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it should be beautiful but at the same time sexy.
2006-09-13 15:38:30 · answer #5 · answered by Bananas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well mine was supossed to be special for me and i wanted it to be and i had been with this guy for a month and he didnt know i was a virgin bc he was more experianced then me and i didnt want him to know. he didnt ask so i didnt tell. then afterwards he asked how many people i had been with and i told him he was the only one. after that he made the next times very special for me but we broke up bc he had to move. i am not upset about it but i sish i could have waiting for a really good loving relationship. i just wasnt thinking at the time and it happened.
2006-09-13 16:55:14 · answer #6 · answered by emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it has gone away from how God intended, as a bond only shared between a husband and wife, to a right of passage, free for all, it is horrible. I don't blame the media only, I also blame us as adults, and parents, who can't seem to realize what we do is going to affect the children around us. As parents and and adults, we are living with a "don't ask, don't tell" philosophy, the kids don't ask us, and we don't have to tell them about the "facts of life". Forcing them to ask pure strangers on some Internet forum, for the answers of life, because they are too embarrassed to talk to their parents. Its totally bogus, and sad to see. However we are not alone in this battle, and we are getting our tools needed to fight this war. The "abstain till marriage" era is returning with a vengeance, and i only pray that I will be able to raise my children with that belief. One that I myself fell short in learning.
2006-09-13 16:40:21 · answer #7 · answered by cyunos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree everyone just wants to lose it so they can say that they did. i'm 13 and i just think it is so stupid. who would want 2 do that? i no that i dont. im going to wait 4 a while like 18 or something.
2006-09-13 15:47:23 · answer #8 · answered by sweettart1325 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont u think sex is hot and sexy for a man u should love it too.specially on the first time....
2006-09-13 15:40:12 · answer #9 · answered by DADUDE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's the violence and desensatizing of our youth. they just don't give a sh** about anyone but themselves.a guy wants to be the first to take a girls virginity as a primitive master ego. girls are more fearful now because of the desensitizing of the males and somewhat of themselves.
2006-09-13 15:42:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's beautiful about the pain that comes with losing it.
2006-09-13 17:22:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋