It never was in to receiving oral sex because I just don't get off on it. Then It kind of became a game to see who can make me C.U.M. I always just figured it was the girls fault. I mean it would feel great but I never ejaculate. I have tried it with so many girls now it would be hard to count, and still cant. Has any girls had this problem with a guy before? How long dose it usually take a guy to blow his load when receiving oral sex? And is there any thing I can to do to help the situation.
P.S. The same goes for hand jobs too.
2006-09-13 08:18:41 · 6 answers · asked by rebel_slash_hippy 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
better check with a dr your sensory recepters could be out off order and a simple drug can get you back on track
2006-09-13 08:58:35 · answer #1 · answered by msteckter1987 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds psychological to me. A part of you isn't ready or comfortable to orgasm in a woman's hand or mouth. Maybe you feel too vulnerable - I mean, I've always been amazed and impressed that men let us put their genitals in our mouths! It's quite an act of trust when you think about it.
Anyway, I know lots of women who don't orgasm when a guy goes down on them because they feel too tense and uncomfortable about it, so you are probably in a similar boat.
I think you need an understanding partner that you really love and trust, and you need to really want it and not hold back.
2006-09-13 15:45:16 · answer #2 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it could be physical or psychological, you should see a doctor. I've never met a man who did not c.u.m. during oral sex, no matter how bad it was. Masturbating and not cumming is also a strange phenomenon
2006-09-13 08:27:45 · answer #3 · answered by venus11224 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Always worked for me. Maybe your dick died and you just don't know it. Did you get injured in any way that has affected your feelings down there. I would get my dingie checked by a doctor because you sure are missing out on very pleasurable thing.
2006-09-13 08:47:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may be a subconcious thing on your part not wanting to in her mouth. Or it feels so good, that you don't want it to stop.
2006-09-13 08:24:42 · answer #5 · answered by MiMi 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
go to the doctor and see if anything wrong or teach your mate what you like.
2006-09-13 09:11:25 · answer #6 · answered by blaze67247 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋