1.do u think it is ok to date your best friend of the oppisite sex??
2. is it normal to be nervous to ask out your best friend even if u know he likes u??
3. when should i ask him??
4. or should i wait a copuple more days to see if he is going to ask me out?!?!?
5. how should i approach him?!?!(call him, talk in person etc.)
6. when i do approach what should i say??
2006-09-13 08:01:48 · 19 answers · asked by babynam2 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
1. yea
2. yea
3. a time that you two are alone?
4. thats good
5. in person
6. hey!
2006-09-13 08:03:44 · answer #1 · answered by footballgrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Yes, but they will no longer be your friend if you break up most likely
2. Yes, its human nature to be nervous even if you know the feeling is mutual.
3. Ask him whenever u are alone and feel comfortable.
4. If you prefer you could wait it out and see but if you are really into him and knows he likes you than might as well just ask and get it over with.
5. Talk in person. In private.
6. Whenever you feel comfortable. Say "Hey, Ive been meaning to tell you.. I really like you more than a friend and Id love to go out on a date with you sometime." And it will all roll from there.
Goodluck
2006-09-13 08:06:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Yes.....I did and now we have eight kids.
2. Yeah....I was.
3. Whenever you think the time is right....
4. Ask him out first. Guys like that. They think it is bold and brave. And you don't want any other guy getting him, would you?
5. It's easier to call him. But if it is in person, he thinks its more brave.
6. Say if you two want to hang out sometime. And with a group. Then you'll casually move on to one-on-one dates.
2006-09-13 08:24:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is quite ok. Since he is your best friend you must have some common interests. I would use this as the basis for asking him out. Don't make it into a real big deal. Figure out something low key you would like to do together and ask him if he will go with you. Do whatever is natural--call, in person-whatever you are most comfortable with.
2006-09-13 08:08:07 · answer #4 · answered by beckychr007 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. yes its okay, if u 2 have feelings 4 one another and if u 2 both want 2.
2. yes cause i mean it's still scary cause u think bout wat if this changes our friendship.
3. when ever u feel that ur ready then go 4 it don't think just do.
4. if u want 2 u can wait but u dont have 2 cause if he doesnt ask u soon then u should go ahead and ask him.
5. i think that just going up to him is better then calling but calling is not as scary.
6. if u no that he likes u then just go up 2 him and b like hey watz going on then b like i was jw if u would like 2 go out wit me and there it is.
i hope this helps u and u 2 have a great relationship.
2006-09-13 08:34:44 · answer #5 · answered by sweettart1325 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet up in person, and go somewhere where you can talk. Just bring it up in the conversation about you two dating and see what he thinks. Maybe he feels the same way you do. There's only one way to find out. But if he doesn't, dont get bummed out. Just stay friends. Good Luck :-)
2006-09-13 08:18:23 · answer #6 · answered by librantiger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*I gave this advice once before and they liked it*
There is nothing wrong with you calling him up, When you have got yourself together..and ask him in a breezy ambiguous way that you wouldn't mind going out for a coffee or drinks......Keeping it breezy gives room for not fully opening up about your feeling just yet without being dishonest....
Just give it some thought BEFORE you make plans that this is truly what you want because you're friendship will change from that moment on....for the better or for the worse that can not be pre-determined but it will change....Follow you're Instincts rarely do they let you down....Good Luck!!!
2006-09-13 08:11:16 · answer #7 · answered by Erin O. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.yes ok
2.yes it is perfectly normal.
3.be cool gain confidence and ask him.
4.you can even wait but why take chances.
5.talk in person you will be able to see his expressions.
6.whatever you fell for him say to him.
ALL THE BEST!
2006-09-13 08:04:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Yes, best friends make the best mates but usually afterwords it ruins the friendship... but if your both mature and really care for one another then itll be ok.
2. yes, of course it is
lol, it seems that you really like this guy. i'd say just go for it... if you know he likes you, hell say yes and if hes not ready for the realtionship, being that he is your best friend, he will let you know.
Either way it does seem that you really like him and that you should go for it. Its better to have gone for something then to wonder what if.
2006-09-13 08:05:49 · answer #9 · answered by FoolishPride 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. yes
2. yes
3. umm maybe brfore a party or dance?
4. nope if your really love your best friend of the opposite sex ask them out - they might be too shy
5. talk to him in person - it's more meaningfuk
6. approch him at a time that you would usualy talk to him - be like it's a normal conversation and say like - i was wondering if you wanted to go to ____________ with me. maybe we could dance eat and spend the night together
hope it helps!!!
2006-09-13 08:52:51 · answer #10 · answered by Me me me me me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.well ask yourself this"do i really want to sacrifice a good friendship for something that might not work out?"
2.yeah
3.when you're ready
4.just do what you think is right!
5.talk in person
6.go with the flow,let your heart guide you!
2006-09-15 04:23:47 · answer #11 · answered by ♥§o contagiou§♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋