I am SO annoyed with my boyfriend. We've been going out for almost 4 monthes. He always has kind of bothered me in the past, but now I can't take it. I have one class at school with him, and he sits behind me, so sometimes I'll turn around and try to talk to him, but I'm not the most talkative person in the world, and he always gets pissed and says I don't talk enought. It's so annoying, I can't help it. I really want to break up with him now because we don't even talk and it's obvious that he doesn't like me anymore. But I don't know what to do because he sits RIGHT behind me and I don't know how to break up with him, I'm so shy to say anything about it or even bring up the fact that he has really been bothering me. Help?
2006-09-13 07:58:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No matter how you break up with him he will confront you since you all have to sit next to each other in a class. If you think the break up will be messy just do it over the phone. You can always hang up if you dont want to hear him. If you want him to know why then just write him a letter and hand it to him. This way you can explain everything and (he will read the whole letter). You will have to talk face to face though. There is no way around that.
2006-09-13 08:01:50 · answer #1 · answered by Keith Perry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he your boyfriend in the first place? It sounds like you both do not have anything in common. So, next time he's sittin behind Ya, turn around and say. I don't wanna be your girl anymore. Then turn back around and continue your day! Worked great for me once!
2006-09-13 08:15:26 · answer #2 · answered by trisha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
privately not in class, sit down with him n say u know I do not think we have much in common u like 2 talk n I do not. I think that we should not be a couple anymore but I would still like 2 be friends.
2006-09-13 08:01:08 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. first of all, you dont exactly have to talk to him. write him a note. I'm the same way with my feelings. i find it easier to express myself in writing a note. after you write exactly how you feel in the note, the hard part will be giving him the note. now you could use the approach that i used, you can give the note to a friend of urs to give the note to ur bf.. or you can find your courage and give him the note urself, just slip it on his desk in class, if he does still like you he will try to save your relationship, if he doesnt he will either blow off the note, or write back saying ok lets break up, or he will tell you face to face... either way, you have to be strong enough to write and give him that note.
2006-09-13 08:07:38 · answer #4 · answered by chstarponchild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to talk, write a note. Being stuck sitting in front of your ex can't be any worse than what you're going thru right now.
2006-09-13 08:00:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he sits right behind you you need to talk to your teacher about moving. and just break up with him not hard just say im not dating you anymore.
2006-09-13 08:01:16 · answer #6 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him and tell him that you feel distant from him and that you don't think things are going to work out.
And then change your seat in class ;)
2006-09-13 08:02:03 · answer #7 · answered by Engage Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slip him a note saying youre really sorry but it isnt working out, and that you need some space, and that you hope you'll always be friends - but that all, and you wish him well, in finding a new girlfriend?
2006-09-13 08:00:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say, "you're annoying and you always get pissed at me. this isn't really working for me, so I think we should end it."
2006-09-13 08:00:13 · answer #9 · answered by gimme_danger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him break up with you. Trust me, he will want to break up with you first if he thinks things aren't going well.
2006-09-13 08:01:09 · answer #10 · answered by GMAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋