how do i get over worrying about not being with my mum? she MIGHT go away for an hour or so to have a meeting with soemone...she doesnt know weather she will be haveing a meeting or not, but i still worry about it and she has only just told me....whenever i am told that my mum will be away for a while (usually for a day at the most and an hour at the least) and i will not be with my dad but with a friend for the day or my brother...how can i over come this?
2006-09-13 07:31:26 · 8 answers · asked by thunda111 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You know your mom got along OK long before you were born. She doesn't have to be checked on now unless she has some kind of mental disorder requiring a doctor's care. Let her go. As long as she has provided for someone to take care of you, you shouldn't worry about it. She needs her wings and space. As long as she is able to go out on her own, don't be a clinging vine. Find something you can keep your attention on to stop your worrying. And as one other answer said, if you are worried about your mom, pray to the Lord to safely keep her out of harm. You will find that as you pray, His peace will keep your heart and mind off your worries.
2006-09-13 07:50:19 · answer #1 · answered by Captain Cupcake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you actually worried about? Is it being alone or being with someone else? Do you worry about your Mums health or feel she is in danger? How old are you? I would suggest talking to your Mum about how you feel, she might be to answer some of your questions and calm you down. If you cant do that try to find yourself your own special hobby which will keep you busy while she is out but that you can share with her when she gets back. The more you start to enjoy being independent doing things you enjoy on your own the better you will cope being away from your parents Hope this helps. x
2006-09-13 14:54:51 · answer #2 · answered by Nic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry I was exactly the same lol. It soon passes, you will probably still worry about her but not total paranoid about her. Just remember your mum is an adult and totally capable of looking after herself, she did before you were born, so she can still now. The faze will pass, you're just sensitive, not such a bad thing if you think about it lol. Good luck with it, hope it turns out alright x
2006-09-13 14:50:48 · answer #3 · answered by BaybiiBlondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are totally attached to your mom and the only time you feel safe and secure is when she is with you. You are having seperation anxiety is what u r experiencing! Its normal and you should start by taking short periods apart like 30 minutes at a time. You know she is coming back so remember that. Find something to do while she is gone- like yahoo answers and before u know it she is back! Good luck to u
2006-09-13 14:54:49 · answer #4 · answered by cstinkerbell6969 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt depend on anyone because you came into this world alone and you are going to leave this world alone. Fair enough.. you sound like a mummys girl.. i love my mum to bits but it sounds like you need to be a bit more independant! Always look at the bright side of things babe ... where theres a negative theres always a positive
2006-09-13 14:51:54 · answer #5 · answered by ashley_kiley_wilson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don`t know how old you are, but if you`re a teenager, grow up a bit. You`re cramping your mums style.
2006-09-13 14:51:08 · answer #6 · answered by The BudMiester 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to check in with you every once in a while that should ease your mind a little if that doesn't work just try to keep yourself busy.
2006-09-13 14:33:45 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello. just pray to God that she is safe and live your life you got one two, be happy don't worry that God will keep her safe. keep your mind busy doing what you really like to do okay, so may God bless you together with your family. good luck and good life
2006-09-13 14:42:27 · answer #8 · answered by Isabel Gaviota 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋