My divorce has been final for three months and I havn't had it in so ling I'm going crazy......where are all the good guys when you need them?
2006-09-13 07:22:17 · 30 answers · asked by Tara R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You really don't...it's all mental.
State of mind versus realism.
2006-09-13 07:26:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of good men out there. You will find the one for you when you least expect it. Maybe subconciously you are putting off signals to stay away. After going through a divorce you are probably extra guarded and suspiscious of a mans motives. Hopefully you will find someone soon to share company with. Do not give up it will happen.
2006-09-13 14:27:05 · answer #2 · answered by tom4texas 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why not go out and socialize, go to some singles places, ballrooms, bars, nightclubs.
From there I believe you can find someone willing to be your date, bring him in,, enjoy with him, then after the night is over, send him home and forget him..
Do it everytime you feel like it..
If this is not your type, then there are so many toys out there you can choose from. At least this will give you more privacy, and away from STD.
2006-09-13 14:28:58 · answer #3 · answered by yulnores 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tara, I understand what you are feeling, but please keep in mind that even good guys can pass on the wrong diseases and std not to mention the rest of the things that are past around. Honor yourself and get to know your partner first, as you don't know who he has been with. It will pay off health wise down the road. Best wishes to you.
2006-09-13 14:59:29 · answer #4 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like you need a good guy you just need a hard one. If you are waiting for that good one then you need to learn how to take care of yourself it may be awhile. Good men are hard to find.
2006-09-13 14:28:30 · answer #5 · answered by sscott12414 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are an outgoing person ,you should try goin to a bar anybody can pick someone up there and you never know you might hit it off. emt_51@yahoo.com
2006-09-13 14:29:38 · answer #6 · answered by emt_51 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the "toy" store & get yourself a rabbit. No man needed.
2006-09-13 14:48:04 · answer #7 · answered by life made better thru chemistry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a bar, pick up a guy, bring him home, use him for a few hours and send him on his way.
2006-09-13 14:25:29 · answer #8 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Complain when it has been 6 years and you are married.
2006-09-13 14:47:13 · answer #9 · answered by bfm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you looking for it or a good guy? There is a difference.
2006-09-13 14:34:02 · answer #10 · answered by 2strongfor2long 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by "it" what do you mean---a job, a clue, an attractive body, a personality, a day without having to call your probation officer?
2006-09-13 14:36:55 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋