how can i know what's there in my husband's heart without actually asking him?

Answer 1

you can't

Answer 2

Well obviously, we can "perdict" the future or use telepathy to communicate with a love one, but we can ask questions and "communicate" our thoughts, desires and wishes. You need to break the cold war barrier between you and your husband and simply "discuss" your marriage.
Ask him how he feels about you and put this mystery behind the both of you. Conversation works and when it stops a slow methodical death silently occurs and one day you'll wake up and not know the person that shares your bed. Talk all night if have to but please talk...Good luck

Answer 3

If you figure out a way-please email me.
Married 20+ years and I haven't a clue.
I have to ask - and still I am not sure if I am getting deep at what's in there.
I on the other hand - wear my heart on my sleeve and everyone (I am close to) knows.
:)

Answer 4

I don't think there is a way. You can't read minds, and no one can read hearts. I suggest actually talking to him and asking him. After all, he is your husband and you should be able to talk to him about anything- including what's inside his heart.

Answer 5

You can't. You really need to stop thinking like that. Assuming things can get you in deep trouble.

Four Agreements You Need for Living a Life With Value


In his book "The Four Agreements," Don Miguel Ruiz distills the essence of Toltec wisdom into four principles for living a life of value:

Be impeccable with your word.
Don't take anything personally.
Don't make assumptions.
Always do your best.

How elegantly simple! But simple wisdom isn't common practice. While most of us believe we are impeccable with our word, we know others who are not. And most likely, others, from time to time, consider us far less than true with our word.

The Four Agreements are deceptively simple, yet difficult to apply. With practice, they're extremely effective, providing a way to experience inner peace and happiness.


Each agreement is self-directed. It's not about what you can do to change someone's behavior. Rather, these guides teach us how to respond appropriately to others' difficult behaviors and develop smoother relationships.

So, how do you apply these principles at work? Let's examine each one.

1. Be impeccable with your word. Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using words to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.

2. Don't take anything personally. Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won't be the victim of needless suffering.

3. Don't make assumptions. Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness, and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.

4. Always do your best. Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse, and regret.

Practice

Become more mindful. The next time you begin to gossip, assume something or fail to clarify, stop yourself. If you sense you're taking something personally, back up and think before you speak. Ask yourself, "How can I make this situation better?"

Instead of trying to change another person, make an impact on someone you can really change: yourself.

©Patsi Krakoff.

About the Author: Patsi Krakoff, Psy. D. writes articles for business and executive coaches and consultants.




I think it is very useful advice...But this is mine.

1) is it kind?
2) is it true?
3) is it necessary?

I do my best to live by that.


G.G.

Answer 6

if he is your soul mate then you will know by the look in his eyes and by the way your heart connects to his. my husband and i are so close that i can about 80% of the time tell you when my phone rings if it is him or not.

Answer 7

nobody can know what is there in others' heart including your husband's.may be u can just guess what is he thinking because of constant togetherness. if u love each other very dearly, to a certain extent u can feel what he is thinking or feeling. but men can hide their feelings very well unlike women.

Answer 8

Watch what he does and how he spends his time. People usually are doing what they want to do or at least what's important to them. But if you don't think you're important enough to your husband, then it's your job to make yourself important to him. You'd be suprised the influence you have over him.

Answer 9

Be open and honest. We men don't catch on to hints. You are going to have to hit him over the head directly. Be forward and just ask, that is what we really want in a woman anyways.

Answer 10

Well if you dont know how your husband feels youve got problems. Ask him. C Dumbass.omminication is te key. Stop being such a woze.!

Answer 11

You can get a pretty good idea by his actions. Actions speak louder than words. If he says one thing but does another then he is not being sincere.

Have a great day!!!