back in college where i doggystyled a girl in my dorm and then her roommate the next day and how my fraternity started calling me
"mr doggystyle" after that. what gives?
2006-09-13 07:08:19 · 31 answers · asked by mark s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you are stinking punk!!! she should divorce you and find a man who really cares about her.
2006-09-13 07:20:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
because:
1) you had a girlfriend, and cheated on her w/ the roommate.
2) she will now think if u want doggystyle, it's cuz u will do it w/ ANY girl, not just ur wife
3) u were acting like a total PIG back then, and if ur proud of it, u haven't changed
4) u might cheat on her w/ some other woman for the sex...
the list goes on. u obviously haven't changed if u have to ask "what gives". the problem is not the doggystyle part, it is ur lack of respect for a relationship, and for who u are with, and what u do or say that will reflect poorly on your values and morals. u need to think before u speak, and u need to prove to her now (cuz u told her the past in this manner) that u are completely loyal, and have changed from being a total jerk to a caring, loving husband. good job fido!
2006-09-13 14:22:52 · answer #2 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HERE'S WHAT I THINK. WOMAN'S POINT OF VIEW
That would be like her telling you about how she took on these 3 guys by herself in the college bathroom and expecting you not to get a little.......pissed.......I doubt if she even feels pissed.....more hurt and maybe a little jealous because she still finds you hot and knows that other girls still look and is maybe a little concerned that you telling her this you might mean that you've been thinking of other girls....like maybe you want to be ''Mr. Doggystyle" again instead of stuck with her.
2006-09-13 14:18:38 · answer #3 · answered by arl21amber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets see, how about if she told you she had this done to her by three different guys and she told you in detail how she was done by each and she got the name Whore?
It is not cool to bring up such things to your WIFE it is very disrespectful to her and your marriage. You have distroyed the sexual and emotional intamacy of your marriage. The most sacrasacnt part of a marriage you have violated in the most dispicable manor.
You are not mature enough to be married and she needs to leave you for a better "MAN". You are still an adolecent.
What gives, is you have said something you can never take back and given her an awful sight into your past that she did not need to know and now she knows this forever. I beleive your marriage is now on the way to being ruined and of your own doing, comes your future.
2006-09-13 14:23:59 · answer #4 · answered by Martin M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was fixing to turn off my computer when my eyes fell on this question. You may be kidding us..., but I used to get upset every time my husband talked about his past. I noticed it was almost every time we (did it). It really burned me up so I started in on my past and he couldn't take it either. He would lose it. ( you guys know what I mean ). This kept going on and then we started saying stuff like "maybe you just call Jane Doe or John Doe". Anyway, after a while (few years) went by; we together, made life miserable for each other. We are divorced now. Going on my own mainly. Wishing I hadn't been so stupid. I hope y'all both stop bickering back and forth because what you reap you sow. I don't want y'all ending up like us.
2006-09-13 14:24:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you feel the situation no big deal if it was the other way around? Let's say back in college your wife was giving oral to some guy in her dorm AND his roommate and the next day her sorority started calling her deep throat , would that make you blurp out warm fuzzy chuckles?
2006-09-13 14:22:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It insulted her. Women accept their husband's past experiences on a different level. Other's may not mind it at all, but as your wife is different, it did insulted her as if you were also bragging it to her.
You should have thought twice,, but whatever has been done can never be undone.
All you can do now is to try to understand her views of your past and be sorry for it and telll her so you did not really mean to hurt her or to brag about it.
That's all..just say you're sorry..Do it if you love her and you did not really mean to offend her.
2006-09-13 14:17:11 · answer #7 · answered by yulnores 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been married? And do you know anything about your wife? You should've known better than to think that a story like that wouldn't upset her. Think before you speak next time.
2006-09-13 14:18:16 · answer #8 · answered by kindofkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
discussing your single life sexual exploits with your spouse is kind of like asking to get shut off for a couple of years.
No one likes a braggart, and wive's expecially detest hearing the deeds done to other women..
Somethings are best kept to yourself.
2006-09-13 14:29:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe u didnt bark at her more mr doggystyle
2006-09-13 14:15:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you shouldn't have told her that. Would you like hearing about how she did two guys at once or something like that? When women ask about stuff like that they don't really want to know the truth! Lie!!!
2006-09-13 14:33:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋