Men and Women, if your wife/husband told you to change a certain thing during sex would you do it to make him/her happy???? I think i would if my husband asked. Its is wrong to ask???
2006-09-13 06:59:02 · 22 answers · asked by **What??** 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would certainly try to change what he asked. And I would expect him to try to change something in bed if I asked him too. That's what marriage is about, compromise. Its not wrong to ask, because to make things work at anything you have to be open and talk to each other.
2006-09-13 07:03:07 · answer #1 · answered by MsBeav 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to have good communication, especially about sex, to have a good relationship. I am open about stuff like that with husband. I would change certain things but those things also have to be something I'm comfortable with as well.
2006-09-13 14:01:50 · answer #2 · answered by Stacey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, it's the only way to give and get what you want. Never wrong to ask, always keep your relationship open it's the only way to make it work. It has for me for over 30 years
2006-09-13 14:02:11 · answer #3 · answered by teamkimme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very open. If he wants to try something new, I'm all for it. I don't think I've ever said no to anything he's asked me for in bed. And if he wanted me to change something I'd do it. He did it for me. He likes to have his "boys"......well, anyway. I asked him to start shaving down there. The whole thing; beans and franks. I've even given myself a different name when I go to the salon to get my hair died or whatever so it's like I'm another person. It's fun! Besides, how do you know you don't like it if you don't try it?
2006-09-13 14:26:27 · answer #4 · answered by vitamin D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would it be wrong? I tell my boy friend all the time, lets try it this way or that...and after everything is over sometimes we have asked each other, so what did you think of this/that? I thought it was normal..lol
2006-09-13 14:03:27 · answer #5 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what he asked you to change. If he told he wanted it quieter or stroked to the left intead of the right or in a maid's costume...sure, no problem!!!! But, if he's asking to do it in chains and whips and he knows you don't like that....he's wrong.
2006-09-13 14:07:49 · answer #6 · answered by arl21amber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would because its about pleasing and making each other happy. Thats the kind of relationship my boyfriend & i have. In some sense I guess its my reassurance that he wouldnt go astray on me and seek his fulfillments elsewhere.
2006-09-13 14:54:49 · answer #7 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open enough to tell her that the back of her legs look like she has been lying a gravel driveway and just stood up.
2006-09-13 14:04:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
We consider ourselves very open. It is not wrong to ask, how else will it be changed.
2006-09-13 14:29:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would to make my husband happy, i know if i had a request he would make every effort to satisfy my request. i think we have an very open sexual relationship.
2006-09-13 14:03:19 · answer #10 · answered by its just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋