My girlfirend barely ever calls me because her parents say she can't talk to boys( of course girls never listen). Her mom blocks my number from calling, then my girlfriend calls my friend the other day saying how I don't spend enough time with her ( she lives in Broward and I'm in Miami but keep in mind she never gave me her address ) and says that I never communicate with her enough ( keep in mind she never gave me her email address ) and worst of all she thinks that there is something going on between me and my friend ( which is her friend to--they went to the same school ) because i'm always at her house. so what should i do? should i find a way to get her on the phone and try to come up with a way to make our relationship better or should i just break up with her?
2006-09-13 06:57:28 · 17 answers · asked by kinggemini2007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Talk about no communication. Ask yourself what is it that you really want to do? Do you want to be with her or just give up? If I were you I would give it one more chance on the communication part. If her parents do not allow phone calls how about internet or even sending a letter through your mutual friend? Think of sneaky ways to get together but don't do anything you would regret later.
2006-09-13 07:02:41 · answer #1 · answered by awhisper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should find a way to get her on the phone and talk to her, while you have her on the phone, offer to email her or go to visit her, and reassure her that you arent messing around on her. girls are insecure when they are in sort of a long distance relationsip... trust me i know this from experience... but any way you should try to make things work to the best of your ability, if she doesnt give you her home or email addresses, then she is trying to either push you away, make you break up with her or she is a goody goody that obeys her parents rules... try making arrangements to meet somewhere, or have that friend you both share, try a three way call so you and ur girl can talk and her parents wouldnt know.....
2006-09-13 14:04:27 · answer #2 · answered by chstarponchild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her from her friends house since you are always over there but let your and her female friend ask for her and stay on the phone with her so that she knows that you are thinking of her. Ask her to meet you and pretend to meet her friend so that you can spend time together. If that does not work, find a girlfriend close to where you live.
2006-09-13 14:07:29 · answer #3 · answered by ElegantSweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa. The very next time you see your girlfriend face-to-face, I'd ask her about the allegations your/her friend is making. Perhaps the friend thinks you're better suited to her. Then, wise up and never confide to a female problems you're experiencing with your girl - Everyone knows that.
2006-09-13 14:03:49 · answer #4 · answered by gravelgertiesgems 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her, any woman that complains about not spending enough time with them you got to drop like a bad habit cause it will only get worse and worse as the relationship goes on
2006-09-13 14:01:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is a waste of your time brother, it sounds to me like you are quite a bit more mature then she is and you need a girlfriend not a little girl , Kick her to the curb and move on , life is way to short to worry about her head trip ......you know what you do , dont let her make you the bad guy when in reality you are the victim here ........shes a head case and her mom is gonna screw her up worse ...go now while you have your self respect in tact ......good luck
2006-09-13 14:02:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old r u? Man relationships shouldn't be that complicated. Tell her that she should email you and communicate that way or through instant messenger...she has a computer doesn't she?
2006-09-13 14:01:03 · answer #7 · answered by SuperChic3955 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There ain't anything going on that you need to break up from.
This isn't a relationship. She really isn't your girlfriend.
2006-09-13 14:08:17 · answer #8 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her contacts and communicate mate!u are at her friends house,ask the friend to fone her,then speak to her...get my drift?dont give up too easily coz of the distance.work on it mate!
2006-09-13 14:02:23 · answer #9 · answered by soft heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm yeah well if you cant talk to her you dont have a relationship. so if you cant talk to her yeah go for the friend that she thinks your messing with anyway. at least you see her pretty often
2006-09-13 14:00:46 · answer #10 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋