There is a teacher at school which I have a crush on...he's really nice and he likes me too...
I don't know what to do now cos I'm confused...I am 15 years old and er...what do you think I should do??
Half of me wants to attract him and the other half wants to stay a good girl and forget the crush...which I can't......
2006-09-13 06:55:35 · 38 answers · asked by zipporahbourne 2 in Education & Reference ➔ Primary & Secondary Education
you are far too young for all of this and your teacher should be thrown in jail if anything happens. Please realize that if you really like this teacher you will leave him alone. You could potentially ruin his life by acting on your sexual impulses. sex/relationships with students is illegal!! If your own well being is not a concern think of what it could do to him. Also, make sure he feels the same way and that you are not just misreading the signals. At 15 you are full of hormones that make you ****** but trust me 5 years from now you will thank yourself for just keeping your legs closed on this one!!
2006-09-13 07:01:26 · answer #1 · answered by bbopper 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
watch cnn....they show the stories over and over, and today i saw a teacher who is 23 yrs old have an encounter/sex with a 15 i believe year old student. she got 3 yrs probation...hmmm...alot of this student/teacher/relationship is happening alot....atleast lol wait til u turn legal so none wont get hurt. i dunno. but if u had a crush and cared for this teacher, u wouldnt want ur "crush" be without a job would u? i mean if anything furthers w./ u and him how is he suppose to work? and then be claimed as a pedophile and not many will hire him. gotta think about that too. ur still young im sure there are guys ur age that would date u . or just focus on school and finish that first. goodluck!
2006-09-13 07:00:50 · answer #2 · answered by yahoo2006 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well sweet,if u really like him, u wud do both urself n him a grt favor by not getting involved with him at this stage as u only 15. of course u sound sensible enuf wen u say u have a 'crush' and that thr is the other half in u that KNOWS its not leadin newhr. make friends with this pally half of urs n slap the devil-half everytime it nudges u. here: 1) tie a band round ur wrist n snap it or bite ur tongue evrytime the devil u surfaces. 2) treat urself with a self-pat, a snack u like, a hobby whichever suits the moment u avoid his thoughts.
better still, its always wise to engage an elder if u r really bothered. ur mother/her sis knows better anytime than ur best peer. try talkin to her. mushy thots like these always trouble u more wen u keep em a secret as u aware.so start being nice to ur mom! gud luck.
2006-09-13 20:20:00 · answer #3 · answered by fleur 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that the prospect of an older man is quite enticing. But is the idea of being negatively labeled for the rest of your school career quite as nice? How about when he loses his job because of it? That's not something you should be getting involved with. And, quite frankly, if he's coming on to you, it's very inappropriate. I wonder how many other girls he's tried to seduce before he found someone like you -- someone he could convince that this type of situation is OK. Please don't act on this. It's wrong in any possible scenario and the outcome looks very grim! Think before you act!
2006-09-13 06:59:43 · answer #4 · answered by tom8o 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
All pupils get a crush on at least one teacher in our school years. Just remember though no matter how strong it is it's still a crush.
If you have any respect for him think of this. If you try to get physical with him he will reject you, then you will feel really $hitty. No way is he going to put his career on the line .When the school bell goes he he probably goes on with his real life with his wife/girlfriend, dog and cat. Just keep it as a fantasy and dream until you meet someone who will give as much as you do to a relationship. Easy for me to write and hard for you to do . . . but trust me
2006-09-13 07:06:30 · answer #5 · answered by dougie boy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Teachers are mostly nice... that doesn't meen they like you like you if they do that is sick. They can and will get in a lot of trouble. You are 15 stick to coeds your own age... don't try to ruin some teachers career.
2006-09-13 07:46:06 · answer #6 · answered by meriverguide 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 15 and that situation is only trouble.....a lot of trouble for everyone involved and it is unnecessary and aviodable....you say he "likes" you too but how old is he really? did he say that to you? or is he just friendly to you and you've taken it the wrong way becuz you already hae a crush on him? plz dont get into this thing and i'm sure your techer will be smart enough to saty away from this situation too......you're still very young too young for this sweety.........
Just concentrate on your studies and try to do your best.....thats whats important now.....
2006-09-13 07:53:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
advice from a 15 yr old to another 15 yr old
FORGET him. he must be to old for you
Teachers can make a mess of ur life no matter you like them or u hate.
I hate me history teacher and im a mess in my sst
and yes love is stronger than hate. So if you end up in trouble it'll be a greater one.
2006-09-15 21:37:12 · answer #8 · answered by Yogesh G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is said to be blind.But from what you narrate your feelings,you are only half blind.Obey that half which wants you to stay a good girl and forget all that which is taking you astray..
2006-09-13 07:23:46 · answer #9 · answered by ramraj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him leave him alone....avoid taking classes he teaches and you will be doing him a favor. Cause a secret that big is too tempting to share and eventually someone would find out and he would go to jail! So stay away even be rude to him so he thinks you are uninterested.....if he pursues you...well idk! I am sure you are smart enough to know that if it was meant to be it will still be after you turn 18 and are no longer jail bait to him...ok? plus he may just be looking to control someone younger and what a terrible way to start life....under someone elses control. Good Luck and use your head!
2006-09-13 07:07:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋