My fiance's mother told social services five months ago that I was abusing and neglecting our daughter. Luckily, I got to stay with my daughter because I was already in foster care. They took my daughter out of our custody, and for two months, I nor my daughter were permitted to see my fiance. She openly admitted to her son that she didn't mean to get rid of the baby, only me. On one occasion I tried to call my finacee, and she answered, telling me "You stole my son away! You perverted him!" then hung up. Luckily, after two months, my fiacee and I could bring my daughter home. She still, however, is not in our custody and we live in the constant threat of her being taken away. Is it wrong that I do not wish to have contact with my mother-in-law? My fiancee says that I need to get over it, but I just feel I cannot put my daughter and our family at risk again. What should I do?
2006-09-13 06:31:57 · 5 answers · asked by BarelyMakingItBy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No it is not wrong that you should not want contact with this woman.
Some mothers cannot learn to let go and like to keep their kids tied to their apronstrings. This woman is in need of help. I would suggest that you two get into some serious counseling sessions andalso work close with your social service agency. The more you cooperate with them the sooner the daughter issue will be cleared up. The counseling seessions will even help stregthen your relationship with your fiance. If he doesnt participate, you go for yourself.
Work with social services and be sure to do what is required of the both of you. It may take time but you will win. As for the mother ignore her, she needs serious help. You will need to get this off your mind and you will find things will go great for the both of you.
2006-09-13 06:44:54 · answer #1 · answered by apostle1938 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she was anykind of a person she wouldn't of done that to her son or her grandaughter. Sounds like she is jealous, and needs to get a life of her own. I'd tell my husband to fix the problem or I would be outta there! Good Luck!
2006-09-13 06:54:58 · answer #2 · answered by concerned 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 21:30:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to your finacee and tell him that being a mama's boy is not going to work it the two of you are going to get married.
2006-09-13 06:45:27 · answer #4 · answered by pudgie39759 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you two need some counseling.
2006-09-13 06:36:23 · answer #5 · answered by doglover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋