This isnt nothing new we got aborted 8 tmes before but this time doctor say she will probably have scarring and not to have another one so he demanded for me to use a condom I tried but they are too tight how can I find one that fits? Has anyone hear of not being able to have the abortion after so many times I dont think 8 is that many she is only 16 isnt she too young for medical problems tank you
2006-09-13 06:31:46 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
have you ever heard that there are other contraceptives out there other than condoms? People like you and your girlfriend should be forced to be sterilized.
I am pro-choice but after so many abortions something needs to be done.
2006-09-13 07:18:44 · answer #1 · answered by Scully 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though I bet you're totally lying and none of this is true, I'm going to give you a serious answer after this one not-so-serious, although if true maybe you should consider this solution:
Get to know Lorena Bobbitt.
I hear you - condoms are too tight/too short but you gotta use them anyway. Since I'm in a stable relationship now I don't use them any more and cannot tell you exactly which brand, but I did find some out there that fit and if you shop around you will too.
8 abortions? That's sick. By this time she is probably unable to carry a baby to term from that alone. No, she's not too young at 16 for medical problems. Plus she's going to be mentally scarred for life. What state are you in? She's probably too young to be having sex with you AND how old are YOU? Assuming this isn't the only girl you got pregnant, or even if it is, YOU belong in counseling if not in jail.
I know you won't pick me as best answer because I speak the truth, hard as it is to hear and accept, but that's more important than getting points.
2006-09-13 06:38:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't mean to sound rude or anything, but I can't believe that she's done it 8x !!! So many peeps do it & they regret it after doing it ONCE ! My cuz is 16 & she considered abortion. She didn't feel right doing it so she's keeping the baby. A lot of peeps who I know consider abortion but end up keeping the baby. (My cuz, my sis (21 @ da time) & my cuz (21 @ the time also)
Isn't she on some type of bc ??? She should be taking the pill, be on depo provera (needle ever 3 mos/needle 4x a yr), or maybe even an IUD. It's inserted in to her body. It works for 5 yrs b/f she has to get another one inserted. If you 2 are in a monogamous rel (which it sounds like you are) then maybe this is the option for her. I'd strongly advise you to talk to her being on bc. Since you have to have parents' permission to have an abortion (where I live anywayz), how could she have had so many ? Or can she have it done w/o her telling her parents ?
To answer your question, I've never heard of not being able to have the abortion. Regarding being "too young" well, some peeps are BORN w/ medical probs.
Best advice tho... she needs to be on birth control.
2006-09-13 06:40:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She shouldn't have had the first one, much less 8! How would you like it if someone decided they didn't like you and just killed you? That is what you are doing. I don't care how old she is. You made the decision to have this baby when you decided not to use protection! 16 isn't too young for medical problems. Cervical scarring can cause her all kinds of problems as an adult. I have friends that talk about the horrible pain! Not to mention the problems getting and staying pregnant. Go to her parents NOW! Ask them for help and then get her to an OB/GYN!
2006-09-13 07:46:09 · answer #4 · answered by tessasmomy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are using abortion as your birth control. Tell her to go on the birth control pill. Not everyone needs to use a condom. 16 is way too young to have had 8 abortions.
2006-09-13 08:12:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop having sex. There are condoms made for larger men. There is birth control she can get on. No 16 is not too young for medical problems. If she doesn't want a child then she shouldn't be letting you have sex with her without a condom and birth control. And if you dont' want a child then you shouldn't be having sex with out a condom and birth control.
2006-09-13 06:35:11 · answer #6 · answered by MissWolf 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll try to be has polite has posible, I don't know how you and your "girlfriend" sleep at night knowing that you killed 8 lives, my brother in law and my sister can't get pregnant and you are just throwing those lives to the trash just like that. she's 16 and she is not only too young to have medical problems but she is too young to be having abortions or sex. I'm really hoping that you are just trying to make a bad joke because what goes around comes around.
2006-09-13 06:39:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
she is not too young for medical problems. 8 abortions is outrageuos and honestly disgusts me. I am not a pro-lifer, i am pro choice. But this kid (KID) needs help. and so do you if you cant get it together to used birth control. She is obviously not intelligent enough to be having sex, if she doesnt know about birth contro.l and how to keep from getting pregnant. When she's older and wants a family, her past may haunt her because there will be a good chance that she cand have kids when she wants them....how will she feel about the 8 she threw away?
2006-09-13 06:35:16 · answer #8 · answered by Fade__Out 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well you are the sensitve guy aren't you--at least when it comes to the nerve endings on your sexual organs.
I am totally disgusted by this question and hope that it is just some sick attempt at shock humor or whatever.
If anyone is reading this who is serious and they or their partner is facing the prospect of an unwanted pregnancy--before making a decision on aborting please visit this site: www.OptionLine.org
2006-09-13 07:25:02 · answer #9 · answered by beckychr007 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like another BS story made up by a kid who is trying to stir up trouble. I don't believe one mis-spelled word in it. If you had anything to put a condom on at your age I am sure it would fall right off if it didn't get stuck in your diaper. Grow up and stop being annoying.
2006-09-13 06:34:25 · answer #10 · answered by Rich Z 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋