My Best Friend Catie is a real jerk!!! Example the other day she was telling me how much she hates my mom!! " I cried when I heard YOUr Mom was taking us to carowinds" " I hate your mom she is so mean" then she starts yelling at me when I invited another friend over instead of going to her house!! She even told me that her mom hates me!!
We are having a huge fight right now. Because I told her to stop griping about my mom!!
Is she just a spioled Brat or should I just not hang out with her anymore? I dont want to be her friend anymore but she can be a really good friend (sometimes)
2006-09-13 06:15:12 · 14 answers · asked by ~green day lover~ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ohh yeah, When I say something small like "those earring arent very pretty" she acts like i just said the most evil thing anyone could ever say!!
2006-09-13 06:40:31 · update #1
a good friend lift u up to greater height, wind beneath your wings. that my standard when i pick the most inner circle of friends. she should be on the outer circle. she also trouble if she can't respect your mom for YOUR SAKE.
2006-09-13 06:29:58 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're both a little mad. A great way to handle it is to treat it gently. Don't yell at her, just talk. Politely. Don't insult her. Let her know that what she said hurts. Let her have some time. I think I would be just as mad as her if my friend canceled a get together with me for another friend instead. But that doesn't give her an excuse. Maybe you have also said some hurtful things to her without realizing it. Tell her that you're sorry that she feels that way about your get-together, and that you hope you can sort this out calmly. What you don't want to do is expect her to take an easy insult such as "those earrings don't look pretty". If she's already mad at you...no matter what the reason...insults are not going to help. It may not have been the worst thing to say, but it wasn't nice either. I'm sure you would feel the same way if she insulted something you were proud of having or wearing...or even if she insulted someone you loved, like your mom. So take a deep breath, and once you've cooled off, try to work it out with her. I can't tell what kind of person she is, but if she is your best friend, she must have meant something to you.
2006-09-16 21:30:19 · answer #2 · answered by Sadie555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't like your mom, she has the right to express it, and you of all people should accept it since she's supposed to be your best friend. However, since it hurts you that she says that kind of things, you should tell her that it's okay for her to feel what she feels but that you don't want to hear her say it because it hurts you and friends don't hurt each other. If she keeps it up or gets angry at you, then she's probably not your friend at all, or maybe she just takes you for granted. If that's the case, tell her not to take your friendship for granted, because a friendship has to be deserved, and tell her you shouldn't see each other for some time. Hopefully, she'll realize that she misses you and that she doesn't want to lose you, and if not, you'll have proof that she's not a friend after all and that you don't have to care about her anymore.
2006-09-13 13:25:42 · answer #3 · answered by Ricardo P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It soundas like she is very upset and jealous that you had another friend at your house and didnt come to her house! She is being totally immature and hateful and totally disrespectful to you and your mom just because she feels jealous! She doesnt want to admit her feelings- and doesnt really know how to show them and it comes out as alot of insults! I would just tell her: I love my mom and if you ever talk about her that way again Im totally goin to kick your butt! Walk away from her completely when she says things like that. She is NOT being a true friend by acting the way she is! TOTALLY being a spoiled little brat
2006-09-13 13:21:07 · answer #4 · answered by cstinkerbell6969 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you still hang around with someone who had just insulted YOUR mum?? How old are you guys anyway? No one should ever insult your family and say it in your face as if it doesn't matter to you. Whatever it is, family comes first! You say she can be a good friend sometimes? Anyone can be nice to you at one moment, and be a mean to you the next. Why let her temporary 'niceness' tie you down? Are you incapable of finding better friends than her? I say, dump her, she's not worth it, unless she changes her attitude.
2006-09-13 13:49:15 · answer #5 · answered by Hanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not hang with her anymore, she's a brat, do not allow ANYONE to hate on the person who brought you into this world and who supports you, lose her, she was never your friend to begin with.
2006-09-13 13:20:40 · answer #6 · answered by DivaByNature,B*tchByChoice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
REAL friends support you, not critisize.
You're young so everything is a massive crisis to you b/c all of life is so new to you. But when you get older you'll recognize losers like this and force them away from you.
Be well~
2006-09-13 13:35:38 · answer #7 · answered by Dookiee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from her and hang out with nice people. You deserve to have good friends that don't talk bad about your Mom. Good Luck.
2006-09-13 13:27:45 · answer #8 · answered by Patty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes still be her friend but just tell her that you dont want to hear things about your mom
2006-09-13 13:18:45 · answer #9 · answered by carolea_lamblin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she a friend but not the type of friend that you can talk to nicely she the type of friend that you know, you have to go off on sometimes
2006-09-13 13:20:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋