2006-09-13 05:52:20 · 15 answers · asked by Sara S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't know...i t depends on your situaton but you should have explained your question more. This isn't really a question silly!
2006-09-13 05:54:52 · answer #1 · answered by sour_apple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is very hard to rebuild, almost impossibe! After an affair it is easy to say you forgive, but do you ever forget? When he's late coming home or acting weird, what's the first thing you think of? the affair of course, you wonder if he's doing it again? I tried to forgive an ex after an affair, you see he is an ex! Once the trust was gone we had nothing, for me trust is everything!!! Sorry I have no advice really just experience!
2006-09-13 05:58:51 · answer #2 · answered by faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always hard to rebuild that trust you once had for him. If you can do it, you're probably a saint or that you love him so much and can't bear to be without him. Before you hate him for having an affair, ask yourself why he go on looking for other girls. Did you evaluate yourself?
2006-09-13 05:57:16 · answer #3 · answered by Hanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I feel if someone can love enough to try again with this person after an affair the trust would be an issue but, would have to be regained if it is going to work. Just work on it if you truly love this person, just going to take time.GoodLuck!
2006-09-13 05:59:43 · answer #4 · answered by JACKIE M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who made the affair? I don't think the trust will ever be the same which ever one of you did it the other person is always gonna question gonna ask where you was how come your late you look suspicious!!
2006-09-13 05:55:28 · answer #5 · answered by britt3m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very hard to do will take alot of time and sacrifice on the cheaters part and the cheater is going to have to understand that the cheated is not being unreasonable but just cautious...they were hurt
2006-09-13 05:55:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the hardest thing to do. However it can be done.Been there done that. My grandmother told me to save a % for me. I did not understand then I can assure you I do now. It means never trust anyone 100% .
2006-09-13 06:00:25 · answer #7 · answered by Sugar 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been through it. I was married for 7 years, and it ended when she cheated. I look at it with this perspective...You have to move on. When you meet someone new, keep in mind they are not the person that cheated. You can't go through life expecting someone to cheat, just because someone did in the past.
2006-09-13 05:55:34 · answer #8 · answered by ink_collector 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a LONG time and a total change of attitude from them.
2006-09-13 05:59:05 · answer #9 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time and see if he will keep away from her Give him alot of sex and talk about everything. Make sure you can totally forgive him..its rough Im sure.. good luck..
2006-09-13 05:55:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋