I am IN LOVE with my ex, but were not on good speaking terms right now, and I don't wanna relationship b/c I know it won't work out,(he is never gonna change, and I've done so much to be what he wanted) but I need to get with him tonight! I need just one more night to get it out of my system. (that's what I said last time)... He has done me wrong, but I still want him,in more ways then one. I am so close to being over him, besides this major set back. So would it be wrong to have one more night together?
2006-09-13 05:39:19 · 18 answers · asked by :Dazed and Confused: 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yeah. I am a scorned woman also. You are only prolonging your healing and holding back your future by clinging to him. Woman are so strong and resilient. We carry the world on our shoulders. Is a booty call really worth your pride and dignity?
2006-09-13 05:43:03 · answer #1 · answered by geewhizbaby2008 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you are not going anywhere. You said you told yourself before that you needed one more night, but after that night, you stayed and now you are telling yourself the same thing. You don't seem to be strong enough mentally to move on. This means you will continue to stay there and let him do you wrong as you put up with it. If you still want to be with him after he has done you wrong, you are letting him know that what he did was acceptable. You said that you have done so much to be what he wanted you to be; that was your first mistake. You never change who you are to please any man or anyone else for that matter. If they see they can change you in any way, it shows them that they are in control of your life. When you did that, you gave him the key to open the door to mischief. That was your fault in the first place. It is not going to stop, so you can either stay with him and be his puppet on a string or you can move on and find someone who will respect you. Sometimes you think you love someone so much you can't leave, but believe me, you can find someone else who will make you feel great and you can fall in love with him and be happy. The same way you found the person you are with now, the same way you can find someone else who is worth more.
2006-09-13 12:51:59 · answer #2 · answered by killerlegs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with you? You answered your own questions by saying "I am so close to being over him". So take advice from you own conscience and "GET OVER HIM", not "UNDER HIM". One more night will just lead to more "what if''s and delay your healing process. There are many good fish in the sea, throw this bad one back and keep fishing. GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-13 12:48:13 · answer #3 · answered by SHEILA S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend I have been there! My mom always told me that the best way to get over someone is to find someone new! I think you should look for someone else to have your "night" with. Be strong! You will respect yourself in the morning!!! Good luck!
2006-09-13 12:44:12 · answer #4 · answered by cutencurley_05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds your always gonna want "just one more night" and it would be your best interest to let it just be that a thought dont act on it anymore cause your just going to keep repeating the hurt its best just leave it in the past as hard as that is u may always have the urge to be with him but leave it as that
2006-09-13 12:45:07 · answer #5 · answered by julieta_mcd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never get over him you keep thinking about him like that. One more night with him will only hurt you in the long run. Keep your memories and leave it at that.
2006-09-13 12:41:58 · answer #6 · answered by marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong bc you really don't want "one more night" you said it yourself. You said that's what you said last time. Your the girl who cried wolf. Now it has no value. Move on.
2006-09-13 12:42:35 · answer #7 · answered by Pimp E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you want sex with him he will have control over you! It also makes you think you have something he wants. He will use that against you and just plain use you! Find something else to do and get on with your life.
2006-09-13 12:56:08 · answer #8 · answered by Localgrace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better to find a first night with a new one.
2006-09-13 12:41:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its wrong. If you do then your ties are stronger not weaker and your will power is down the drain too. every time you do it you will have less resistance to him.
2006-09-13 12:42:18 · answer #10 · answered by teulonbranchlibrary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋