2006-09-13 05:38:47 · 12 answers · asked by dream21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
legally yeah that matters. my brother dated this one girl when he was 19 and the girl was 15. her parents called the cops on him when they found out(well her mom did). but he kept on seeing her cuz he fell in love with this girl. if i was in this situation i would keep on dating him, but only if you know that you are really in love with him.
2006-09-13 05:48:00 · answer #1 · answered by amandaklinekln 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, A 20 year old has no bussines being with a 14 yr old. The problem is that it is against the law. And he obviously is not Mature enough to get a women his own age. Run as fast as you can and find a nice 14 - 16 yr old BOY to go out with.
2006-09-13 05:43:08 · answer #2 · answered by daack7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, thats called statutory rape. He should even know that! He needs to find a girl around his own age and you need to find someone around your age. He is more experienced with everything and your just now starting to learn. What till your at the age to make your own choices before dating older men. Good luck!
2006-09-13 05:47:44 · answer #3 · answered by BadAssGirlINWV 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends entirely on the relation ship, I don't know what your relationship is with him, you did not say, but I am assuming it is a sexual one. Many people will say its wrong, and it your age it probably is, but when you are about his age it will be seen as perfectly normal. There are many marriages where the age gap is over 40 years, so you are not that extreme.
2006-09-13 05:44:15 · answer #4 · answered by True_Brit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it absolutely does, although a 20 yr old thinks about 5 years behind(haha) it still is very important to deal with guys on your level, they will understand you better. when you have a boyfriend that much older than you at such a young age, they tend to develop this father - like sydrome. you will probably find yourself aswering to him, asking permission to do things you should only have to ask your parents. and you will be more prone to begin sexual interaction with this person, because you are so busy trying to keep up with his lifestyle. go your own way, baby, leave it alone.
2006-09-13 05:48:54 · answer #5 · answered by *HOT*GHETTO*MESS* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh... I think so especially since he can go to jail for this. Age matters alot when minors such as yourself are involved. It sucks sometimes but its true. But mens minds do not develope as fast as womens so he's probably on your level lol. Sike I'm playing, don't take offense. I'm not one to tell a person who they should or should not date cause I don't know your story like that but, if your parents are cool with it...and yal are definately cool with it....make it do what it do baby :)
2006-09-13 06:46:08 · answer #6 · answered by Shapoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry sweetheart, but you are still a child!!! I know you feel like you know everything at this point, (I was the same way when I was 14) but YOU DONT! Dont try to grow up so fast by dating someone so much older or by having sex young. Enjoy being a teenager, (you havent even been one for 2 years yet!) You dont want all of the stuff that comes with having an adult relationship. Please Please PLEASE dont date someone that much older than you!!!
2006-09-13 05:49:44 · answer #7 · answered by whaaatthe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!! If you and he have sex, it is called statutory rape and he can be arrested and put in jail and be branded as a sexual predator. If you care about him, send him on his way!!! If you must have a boyfriend, get one your own age! Or wait until you are 18 to start dating "older" guys!
2006-09-13 05:47:38 · answer #8 · answered by Princess of the Realm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. it matters because you are young and dont know all the tricks plus he is bigger stronger and smarter than you so do you really understand everything that is going on. plus statitory rape is not up to you its up to your parents.
and why cant he find girls his age? whats wrong with him that he cannot find a girl that is in the same lifetime as him.
2006-09-13 05:42:28 · answer #9 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as it is platonic the legal system can't do anything about it. If there is a sexual relationship going on then the legal system can step in.
2006-09-13 05:43:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋