She use to bring me breakfast in bed once in awhile. But lately, it hasn't happned. That's a reason for divorce, right? I still love her though, I'm so confused.
2006-09-13 05:23:34 · 28 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wow, some particularly good slams on this one. I get to laugh on this one. Thanks!
2006-09-13 05:35:20 · update #1
Yeah, you should leave her--SHE DESERVES BETTER THAN YOU!!!
2006-09-13 05:26:24 · answer #1 · answered by kathy r 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What have you done for her lately? If you bring her flowers, write her a love note, even take her breakfast in bed, she'll probably respond to you differently. Your question is very self-serving, and you need to look into yourself and what you're really asking. If you're just a "taker", she's probably wondering the same divorce questions as you. So if you love her, make sure she knows it. Forget about yourself long enough to give her the love and security she needs. If she still loves you, your small gestures will bring out a lot of satisfying things in your wife!
2006-09-13 12:29:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on what state you live in. Lack of regularly served breakfast in bed has been cited as a valid criteria for divorce only in 27 of the 50 US states. 8 of the others will consider it, but it all depends on the quality of meals she was serving prior to her slacking off. In fact, in both Tennessee and Arizona, judges have found that simply tossing a greasy Hardees bag at a guy once or twice a month is enough to make good on this marrital responsibility. Personally I find that ruling outrageous, but there is no accounting for the standards in some states!
2006-09-13 14:22:00 · answer #3 · answered by EC-S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is very immature of you. You did not love her in the first place b/c when you love someone you make the sex great and it never fades to "not good". You should divorce her so the two of you can find each others soul mates and have never ending always satisfying sex. That is something that comes after the connection. When you are connected, everything falls into place. It is lovely. My girlfriend and I have great sex. We have been together 3 years and it gets better. She is a beautiful, funny, loving, caring woman. I cherish our alone times in the bed all day on the weekends when we are both off of work, snuggling, cuddling, and "being lazy" watching tv.
2006-09-13 17:08:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you think divorce is a big step at this point? I mean you don't say if you've tried any corrective measures with her, like a good beating. Have her go out back and cut a switch for you to beat her with, I think she may rethink this no breakfast in bed stuff.
Good Luck!
2006-09-13 13:00:40 · answer #5 · answered by Jeffrey S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lack of breakfast in bed a reason for divorce? Are you for real? I suspect that you're really talking about something else in bed in the morning. My question to you is this...have you given her any reason to "bring it"? Flirt with her, bring her flowers, tell her how sexy she is, and how much you want her, pick up your own freaking socks, for pete's sake...in other words...sweeten the pot! Make yourself more desirable, and you might just see a welcome change. Oh, and BTW, maybe you don't satisfy her in bed, so she just doesn't bother. Foreplay to us girls means more than our men begging for a BJ. Educate yourself on how to be a good lover...instead of crying about how much you're not gettin'. Good luck!
2006-09-13 12:34:05 · answer #6 · answered by Legs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're cheap..
If you are really married, that is just a very small thing to ask for divorse unless you are fault finding so you can go scot free with another.
And you say you still love her.
Why not do it the otherway around.
You be the one to bring her breakfast. Maybe it will rekindle more love. between you.
2006-09-13 12:42:29 · answer #7 · answered by yulnores 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? She won't bring you breakfast so you want a divorce? Try this, take her breakfast for a change. She doesn't satisfy you in bedf? Try satisfying her for a change. :-P Men.. Now I know where mine gets it from.
2006-09-13 12:31:31 · answer #8 · answered by Mother of One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well
if thats the case
i guess every man should have divorced their wives
man
she is ur wife
not ur maid
do you do the same to her!
i guess u r trying to find a way to have fun
outtie
if u love her as u say
talk to her
its not a short relation
its a life time
love her and cherish her
and have a good life
and grow up...no offense
2006-09-13 12:29:53 · answer #9 · answered by alexandre 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try the kitchen table, the bed gets boring after a while anyway.
2006-09-13 12:32:02 · answer #10 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont love her if thats the reason you want to get a divorce from her!
2006-09-13 12:27:16 · answer #11 · answered by jessicaann29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋