I've already asked a question similar to this one, but the other day at this party i got drunk, ended up doin stuff N making out with this guy that im (kind of) seeing. The day after the party he told some of his buddies everything we did and told them that he could've easily had sex with me(which we didnt) but he couldn't get it up. I was REALLY mad when I found out that he told everybody stuff that should be kept private, but the more i think about I start to laugh cuz if it boosts his ego to tell all his buddies that stuff, then thats pretty sad. Should I just take this as an immature guy thing or is it a bigger problem? Do all guys do this?
2006-09-13 05:17:10 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You exhibited some pretty immature and high risk behavior by ALLOWING YOURSELF to get drunk.
The guys you allowed to molest you are also very stupid and immature.
Everybody involved need to grow up.
Edit the headline to your question. It will be deleted if not changed.
2006-09-13 05:20:01 · answer #1 · answered by WhatAmI? 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Again, this kiss and tell happens with men and women but I agree that men can be real bone heads when they try to brag to their buddies. My sentaments are if I do that and burn a bridge to you, you many tell your friend and I lost that bridge too. (if you and i were to break up and I was to move on of course)
The problem is no going to go away as it has been around longer than us...Try to screen you men...give little info things that are not too bad and if he don't kiss and tell..move to bigger things and so on. But still no Guarentee
2006-09-13 05:32:26 · answer #2 · answered by rickdude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only the guys who are trying to get sex while they are drunk. What part of not being able to get it up would boost his ego? Either way, it's really immature behavior on both parts...and yes it is a problem. But if this is what you are attracted to....then to each their own.
2006-09-13 05:21:01 · answer #3 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Some guys are discreet, but they may be somewhat hard to find and most of the time they have issues.
Most of the time you're stuck with immature frat boys and wannabe kiddies. It is actually very sad, but if you need discretion find another guy.
2006-09-13 05:41:10 · answer #4 · answered by yasiru89 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both are immature. You for getting drunk in the first place with someone you don't know that well and him for telling all his buddies the business.
2006-09-13 05:22:51 · answer #5 · answered by MIA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Learn to develop the habit of forgetting whatever you talk and listen in any party and get on with every day life the next day.
You might have some unpleasant or heated exchanges with somebody; its OK in a party, things do get charged up.
So relax and forget about it.
2006-09-13 05:22:03 · answer #6 · answered by JIM 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not all guys do this. It's pretty sad that he felt the need to kiss and tell just to get respect from his peers. It doesn't make him a better man or a better boyfriend. I'd dump him.
2006-09-13 05:21:46 · answer #7 · answered by Sue B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are like that. There's still some of us nice, respectable guys out there. And, it's also been said, that those who talk about sex all the time, aren't really having it.
2006-09-13 05:25:58 · answer #8 · answered by RockC 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep he's Immature. Same thing happen to me a while ago.. this was back when I was in High school. I just told all his friends to shut up and then that was it. I just ignored them and it went away.
2006-09-13 05:20:03 · answer #9 · answered by Jen 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yea - alot of stupid guys blab about what they did (or didn't) do. It's a phony macho thing with teenage guys. Older men usually don't do this.
2006-09-13 06:15:21 · answer #10 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋