2006-09-13 04:55:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Okay, boy have I done this too many times before. I told guys that I just wanted to be their friends and nothing more. Some of them understood, but some didn't take that so well, but it's not your fault if they are hurt by this, so don't go making yourself feel guilty. You need to make sure you really are NOT interested in them as more than a friend and if so, let them know, no bs. Guys should really appreciate that kind of information before they become too involved.
2006-09-13 05:28:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first conversation should be something like this: I am glad we are friends, its imposible to find a good guyfriend nowadays, since anytime I try, they somehow think I want something else.
If you say things like these ONCE or TWICE, then he should get the hint and leave you alone. However if you say it every time you both meet, it will start to get annoying.
The only way that friendship between a guy and a girl can happen with nothing else is if BOTH have alos other friends and a healthy and NORMAL social life.
2006-09-13 12:08:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just hang out how you want to with him, make sure to say he is a good friend alot, that way he knows you are a good friend. Also, check out other guys when you are with him. If he makes comments that lead you to believe he is interested in another way just let him know you are good friends and dont want to mess up the relationship like that. OR invite him places with several other friends around too.
2006-09-13 12:00:08 · answer #3 · answered by Rae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him straight up what your intentions are.....otherwise, little things you do may send the wrong signals and ruin a potentially great friendship before it even starts.
2006-09-13 11:58:23 · answer #4 · answered by ehcgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him straight up that you just want to be friends and nothing more. And tell him as early as possible to avoid any problems.
2006-09-13 12:14:41 · answer #5 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dress like your going to church.if that doesnt seems to work tell him that u own him like a brother u never had,if he still want some then he is just sick and u need to fine yourself another guy friend.
2006-09-13 12:06:30 · answer #6 · answered by RICKY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck. It's almost impossible with men. If they like you - even the little things you do will make them twist it in their heads that you're doing it bc you have a "secret crush" and you're really in love with them! Men are odd! haha
2006-09-13 11:58:48 · answer #7 · answered by Pimp E 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Start talking to him be his friend if he need help on something help him out then explode the bomb.
2006-09-13 12:14:10 · answer #8 · answered by ~My 1st. Girl~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say "i want to be just friends."
2006-09-13 12:57:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not more than that you women kill me
2006-09-13 12:18:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋