Because complaining is getting too redundant and becoming a pain in my ***. I don't want to be mad and go off and do something to get my mind off things...I just want to accept, but somethings I feel very strongly about and want them my way but honestly they don't really really matter, but they do matter to me.
2006-09-13 04:53:26 · 6 answers · asked by Benny 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I started our relationship expressing myself every time I have a problem and it hasn't gotten us anywhere good. I feel like I just need to trust in him more.
2006-09-13 04:59:27 · update #1
Like...if there are two bags of trash in the kitchen...I can take one out on my way to work...shouln't he also take one out on his way????
2006-09-13 05:05:26 · update #2
DON'T SUBMIT!
Relationships are all about compromise, but you should never just go with whatever he says. Pick your battles, if it really matters, then fight for it. If it's kind of lame, just let it go.
2006-09-13 05:00:46 · answer #1 · answered by JAYMIE M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'll have to be more specific..... what things don't really matter, but you HAVE TO HAVE them your way? Why? Answer that..... A good relationship is a partnership forged from love, trust and compromise - it is not a "man leads and you follow" crap, but its also not a "my way or the highway either". Sounds like both of you have some maturing to do.
2006-09-13 12:03:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should pick your battles, not making a big fuss about every little thing, but your opinion and what matters to you should definitely be important too. You should be his partner, not his subordinate.
2006-09-13 12:11:52 · answer #3 · answered by jade 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your place is where ever you want it to be. if something doesn't sit right with you, then you tell him your feelings. you don't have to be a sheep to make a relationship work. there should be give and take. you should be equals.
2006-09-13 11:59:53 · answer #4 · answered by allkoei 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OPEN YOUR MOUTH. dont just let him lead you around. You got a mind and an opinion use it...Tell him
2006-09-13 11:57:16 · answer #5 · answered by my_hart2hart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not let him lead you around, you will only be miserable. If he refuses to respect you, the only choice is for you to leave
2006-09-13 11:58:27 · answer #6 · answered by bregweidd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋