Lets say a woman leaves you after a year and a half because she wants to be closer to her family, its been two months now apart and we still love each other, do I stay or do I go? The other kicker is I have a great job that I should stay at for another nine months. I live on the west coat and she lives on the east coast. What should I do?
2006-09-13 04:49:20 · 11 answers · asked by MR G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I say stick with the relationship. Girls do need family around them! I would ride it out a little bit it will make for good loving when you do see each other!
2006-09-13 04:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by BOOTS! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she's made her decision. She wants to be nearer to her family. You shouldn't give up your life and everything you want just to follow someone. I understand that you love her, but if she loved you, she would be willing to compromise a little. How about she moves in the middle of where you are and where her family is? Can you transfer within that company? If things don't go well in time with you and the woman, you will be out a good job and resent her (consciously, or subconsciously) because you left your good job for her. Talk to her and ask her if you move there if this relationship is going to go somewhere?
2006-09-13 04:56:21 · answer #2 · answered by verony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you still love her, to put things in perspective for you try this... when you are on your death bed are you going to reflect back on the great job you had, or the great woman & family? jobs come & go, but people you love don't always come around. I understand why she moved back east for family, I live on the west coast, my family after 23 years, is now all moving back east, they know they will all have a pay cut, but family values are better there, schools are better, people are nicer. If you both agree to wait the 9 extra months for your job & have a plan you BOTH are excited about, I say move!!! trust me on this!!
2006-09-13 05:00:11 · answer #3 · answered by cheryl c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO! You are going to risk love for another 9 months of work?! You can find work, there is more than one job... there is only this one woman that you love, cherish, and want to be with. You don't know what life will bring!
2006-09-13 04:54:11 · answer #4 · answered by lily 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you both love each other, then come to a compromise. It's only nine months and that'll fly by before you know it.
2006-09-13 04:55:07 · answer #5 · answered by LittleLady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is she asking you to move out there with her? if you're both fine living apart for the next nine months so be it...sometimes in life you have to do things (in your situation stay somewhere you don't want to be) to get to where you want to be...
2006-09-13 04:54:21 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_latina830 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just talk! And see if either is willing to compromise! Good Luck!!!
2006-09-13 04:51:39 · answer #7 · answered by hippiechic35 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go, follow your heart, you can get another great job.
2006-09-13 04:52:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Which do you love more her or money?
Your choice.
Peace!
2006-09-13 04:52:37 · answer #9 · answered by C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you love her, do what it takes to be with her.
2006-09-13 04:51:46 · answer #10 · answered by just_wondering 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋