My wife has told me I am boring and she does not want to sleep with me. What do I do? I think I am rather good fun actually!!
2006-09-13 04:38:19 · 19 answers · asked by Joe C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Obviously you and your wife have different opinions of what fun and boring are. It sounds to me like your love life just needs a little change from the same ol routine. Its time to spice things up and be adventerous! You could change locations, be spontaneous, introduce toys, ect. The two of you may also need to get out and have some fun together. She obviously did not think you were always boring. Think back to when the two of you fell in love. What was it the two of you used to do for fun?
2006-09-13 04:47:09 · answer #1 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does sleep have to do with the fact you are boring. I think everyone is boring when they sleep, because we just lie there on the bed, dreaming.
2006-09-13 04:40:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
So are you? Is it the same old tired thing all the time? Thats something you BOTH have to work on, not just you. She can't expect to sit back and wait for you to make life exciting for her, and neither can you expect that from her. It takes two to tango.
2006-09-13 04:47:16 · answer #3 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fun in bed or fun out of bed? Think about this question first and then you will get your answer. BTW, Try using you tongue more than just talking with it.
2006-09-13 04:41:16 · answer #4 · answered by litmessoc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well , ask her what she would like to do.
Be open and try new things. Talk with her, good communication makes a good relationship.
2006-09-13 04:41:28 · answer #5 · answered by wonderwoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy some toys and play with her. Spice it up a bit.
2006-09-13 04:39:59 · answer #6 · answered by vitamin D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take your time to please her, ask her what she wants you to do and where she likes to be touched
don't stop til she orgasms and make sure shes not faking it
don't keep ur view that you're good fun, because obviously you're not and it will only make it worse
think about her only and not your own feelings in bed for a while
tease her to please her
2006-09-13 05:00:13 · answer #7 · answered by lakmii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to look at yourself closely and tell your wife to get a grip
2006-09-13 04:40:22 · answer #8 · answered by paki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she must be losing that loving feeling 2 reject you so.. maybe you 2 need a break and find fun else where..
2006-09-13 04:43:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do you think it's up to your wife? Didn't your papa teach you how to control your women?
2006-09-13 04:42:21 · answer #10 · answered by Sheik Yerbouti 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋