I started my period a couple weeks ago and i had unprotected sex and about 4 days ago i had unprotected sex again and he busted inside of me.. I know its way to soon to take a pregnancy test considering i dont start my next period until next month..! Can somebody please let me know if i should be developing some symptoms if so what?? please help me out! im 17 years old and I dont know what to do my boyfriend wants me to get pregnant...Just please help me i would appriciate it! I cant talk to my mom about my situation without her freaking out!!!
2006-09-13 04:34:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
She's going to freak out when you tell her but you shoudl really consider all that you could offer a child or what you couldn't before you bring one into this world.
With that being said, you'll have tender maybe even sore breasts, a bloated tummy, spotting around implantation (7 - 10 days after ovulation) but the only sure way to know is a blood test from the doctor or a HPT.
Do take into consideration though your current standing in life before you have a child.
2006-09-13 04:38:14 · answer #1 · answered by dodgylilminx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The chances of you getting pregnant is very high, especially if you're ovulating. Since it's just under a month that you've had unprotected sex, you should not feel any pregnancy symptoms yet. Take a home pregnancy test and see if it's positive. Follow the instructions on the box.
On the other hand, you're only 17, you shouldn't be rushing to have a baby. Enjoy life and the freedom you have now. Having a baby is major responsibility for you and your boyfriend. Your social life is over after the baby is born and if you can afford over $3,000 a year for baby necessities, then it's something you can think about.
2006-09-13 11:52:04 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs Apple 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi!
Take your calender and put a mark on the first day of your last period. Add 28 days (counting from the first day) and mark that. Then put a mark on the 14th day. That's going to be your most fertile day. The 13 and 15th are also going to be fertile. The 12 and 16th, add them too, just to be on the safe side. If you have your period every 31 days, then of course you add 31 days instead of 28, but you still divide the total in half. If you had unprotected sex on any of these days, you might be pregnant. You can try taking the morning after pill. Do you know anyone who is on birth control? Ask her if she can "borrow" three pills to you and take them. It will have the same effect as a morning after pill. Btw, I think you should talk to your mom about the things that are going on in your life, especially about that boyfriend of yours who actually wants you to get pregnant. What a weirdo.
2006-09-13 12:08:29 · answer #3 · answered by suki's mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And again, another one.
If you dont want to have babies why are you making them?
You generally wont feel any different, (with a very few exceptions) most women dont notice theyre pregnant until they miss a period.
Since you're adult enough to make the decision to have unprotected sex, then you're old enough to raise a child.
Just wait it out and take a test once you're late for your period.
2006-09-13 11:39:36 · answer #4 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off what were you thinking having unprotected sex? It usually ends in a baby. But you wont be able to tell until you miss a period being as close to one as you are. And try not to get all worked up that will get you sick quicker than anything.
2006-09-13 11:44:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
best thing to do in this situation is to speak 2 ur mother.she will freak out no doubt but its always better to let her know right now coz she will be able to help u better.as it is u will have 2 tell her eventually no matter what.so its better u do talk 2 her now than later.u cant get results so soon.u will have 2 wait a month at the least before ur next periods.u never know how ur body will react.so TALK 2 UR MOM
2006-09-13 11:44:03 · answer #6 · answered by nishap 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK.... thats pretty soon to know. But i want to say something else:
Maybe you are weak to make choices, ignorant to choose the way of your life, you fall with the pressure and things like that, but your boyfriend´s not, or at least he might not be. what age is he ? anyway, he is suppose to protect your from everything even not-wanted-pregnancy. If he is not doing this (protecting and looking the best for you) he is a damn useless man (if i can say him "man") so, leave him, for your own good.
2006-09-13 11:53:23 · answer #7 · answered by Cosme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing you can do but wait unfortunatly. When you're about 4 days from when your period is due, take a test. You may or may not have any symptoms before you get a positive test. It just depends.
2006-09-13 11:37:17 · answer #8 · answered by HoosierMommy06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if it busted inside then chances are that you will be prego... As much as it might suck you might have to tell your mom. Get a pregnancy test and take it in a week or so...and if it is pos you'll have to talk to her anyways so now or later....
2006-09-13 11:39:42 · answer #9 · answered by rhodes727 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you wont have any symptoms until after you have missed a period. Second, USE BIRTH CONTROL! you can buy all kinds of stuff at walmart or target...ie spermacide foams & condoms. If you go your local family planning, they wont tell your parents and you can get on birth control pills!! (you dont even have to have an exam!) Just get controll of your situation. your boyfriend isnt healthy for you.
2006-09-13 11:54:58 · answer #10 · answered by Just a girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋