But if he loves me then why would he want another women to join.
2006-09-13 04:33:27 · 15 answers · asked by JUSTME 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It helps him feel like he's "conquering" more than one woman. Getting the girl makes any guy feel like the man, think what getting two women would make a guy feel like. A man who's confident within himself doesn't need to have a bunch of sexual conquests to prove his manhood though. And if he respected you, he would understand that your answer is,"No," and leave you alone about it. He wouldn't be trying to pressure you into it by asking you a bunch of times!!! I'd tell the jerk that your final answer is,"No," and that if he doesn't stop badgering you about it, you're going to find someone else that will respect you. If he's not satisfied with what you give him, then maybe you both should find someone else. ****My husband asked me to do this. It made me feel horrible!!!
2006-09-13 04:40:57 · answer #1 · answered by verony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some reason men think this is the ultimate fantasy. Stand your ground and don't do it. Or do what my friend did. her boyfriend kept bothering her about a 3some. she finally agreed and said she would bring the person home on Friday. He was so happy until he came home and saw a guy sitting on the sofa. He changed his mind and never bought it up again. We had a good laugh over that.
2006-09-13 04:38:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boyfriend....good. He's disposable. Thing is: it's never good when the one man who's supposed to want you all to his own wants nothing more then to drop you into second place to play with another chick in your presence. Obviously that's his goal since you don't want it and he does. If he were fulfilling your bisexual fantasy/curiosity then that's different. It's not about him, it'd be about you. But it isn't, is it? When you add sex into an emotional uncertain situation it always makes things come unglued. Sounds like he's in it for himself and that's something you don't need both in a relationship as well as your heart. Good luck.
2006-09-13 04:42:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
may b he just wants 2 expire ans a 3some, or i think that he wants to have sex with that other woman.It is like almost every mans dream to have a 3some
2006-09-13 04:39:15 · answer #4 · answered by JZ103 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
circulate away him if he's unquestionably severe approximately doing this. He won't be in a position to rigidity you to do it. He might make you sense responsible or threaten to do it besides. So in case you do not pick to get some form of STD or maybe AIDS, get far off from this creap now. i understand you have invested 3 years in him yet, it grew to become out to be a bad investment did not it. Cry, get mad, yet circulate away him!! you recognize as for starting to be out of it, my husband of 13 years asked me some years in the past to do the comparable, I informed him i did not pick to circulate to Hell for doing that and if he had to circulate there he ought to easily not with me. i understand you're actually not married yet that doesn't recommend you're a whore. you recognize if a threesome is what he needs then it will ought to be with out you in it or in his life. Stand your floor lady, it is not person-friendly yet you're able to do it. there is fairly some greater valuable adult males obtainable. As for my husband and his request, he's been confident to not try this. I informed him he had fairly some opportunities to try this formerly he met me and have been given married.
2016-10-14 23:14:01 · answer #5 · answered by mctaggart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your question should be, "Why are SOME men such perverts?" This should also answer your second question. Believe me, not all men are like this. I guess they might fantasize it sometimes but, geez! to act on it with someone they are supposed to love...I'm sorry, I just consider that perversion.
2006-09-13 04:52:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree if my fiance loves me enough he would never ask to be with another or share me with anybody ,but my fiance is a real man that wouldn't ask. I feel sorry for the people that share their spouses it's degrading for both sexes
2006-09-13 04:37:19 · answer #7 · answered by Raineybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife want's a threesome, with another girl. She harrassed me about it so much I gave in. I tried to join in but couldn't do it. I love my wife and don't want to be with anyone else, and I guess I can't understand why she would want to see me with someone else. Don't give in, you'll regret it.
2006-09-13 04:44:34 · answer #8 · answered by noname 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not just a "man-thing". I was introduced and coaxed into a 3-somes by a very sexy woman ... but that 3-some also included her husband!
2006-09-13 04:59:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men do no always equate love with sex...
A lot of men have that fantasy.
2006-09-13 04:37:55 · answer #10 · answered by Chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋