In 10 years of married life I never felt she did have feelings for me, There were few altercations with my relatives.I had given try to each solution, but in vain! There wasn't any reciprocation. In fact , she never initiates nor does she reciprocate It becomes too mechanical.....!
2006-09-13 04:27:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get rid of her.
Find someone else.
2006-09-13 04:30:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez people. I very clearly asked a question in my question and yet people still don't seem to know what I am asking. This is an advice site. You don't to actually ask a question to get comments on a situation. Heck people just type in phrases to get responses all the time. In any case.
You should read my questions lol. I can't believe it has gone on 10 yrs, and you have hve been faithful? Not suggestion you shouldn't have been. But in a lot of cases where a person is feeling neglected in love they tend to search for the missing pieces else where if you know what I mean. So I commend you if you have not done this.
My husband is pretty much the same way. He does come to me for sex. But he is not intimate. I don't get hugs, kisses, and so on. he rarely says he loves me anymore either. Have you told her how you feel? If you have and she has done nothing then I think you need to go. If you are not satisfied you will die alone and unhappy even if she is there till the end. You can be alone emotionally even if you aren't physically. Which is how I feel. I've only been with him a little over 2 yrs and I'm already fed up. Everyone has circumstances behind why they have allowed the situation to continue so I cannot judge your particular reasoning. But let me ask you! Do you watch love stories and feel your heart break because you are lacking the passion. Forget what people say about it being a movie and it's not real. I know people who are in love and enjoy it. My dad and my step mom have been married for 15 yrs and I can still see them stare at each other from across the room with a desire and a love that is so apparent. If that i what you want then get out. There is someone out there that will stop that feeling that there is something missing.
2006-09-13 11:47:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though you are unhappy in your marriage. Have you expressed your feelings to her. Is it possible she does love you, but does not express it in the ways you would like? Few options really.1) Therapy for couples. 2) separation or divorce. If neither of you are happy or want to improve the state of the relationship the choice seems obvious.
2006-09-13 11:36:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the main problem in relationships are that they communication very less n when the as old the relationship becomes the communication nearly ends so it is very important to talk. i would advise u to discuss your problem with her maybe she is having some problems which she is hesitated to talk to u. so you have to talk with her. but i think your question is not enough to answer.
2006-09-13 11:59:38 · answer #4 · answered by royy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so, why did you get married? think back to what you saw in her then and what you did to win her ... start wooing her and she might show some interest .... certainly sit down and talk to her about ways to put some life in your marriage and follow through
2006-09-13 11:43:00 · answer #5 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to make yourself happy. If she doesn't love you there is nothing you can do about that. Move on with your life and find happiness.
2006-09-13 11:37:27 · answer #6 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's your question exactly??
You gave us some details but not enough to go on to give you a response.
2006-09-13 11:31:12 · answer #7 · answered by bluesie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't actually ask a question.....but you can you select my answer as the best? I need the 10 points......
2006-09-13 11:30:12 · answer #8 · answered by Sheik Yerbouti 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
grow up no ones wife loves them. that's what makes it so great. you want love go see the hooker down the street
2006-09-13 11:44:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens when people become comfortable just coexisting.
2006-09-13 11:33:47 · answer #10 · answered by mizsinister 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋