so wake up to go to work and find him in the kitchen on the phone in which he quickly hangs up the phone,I asked who it wa and he said his mate and I said prove it and he ran off,so I chased him round the house for like half an hour trying to get the phone of him and finally succeed to find it was some woman called amanda,a work colleague .Thing is,is that he hasn`t been coming to bed until early hours for over a month now and all of a sudden showing a keen interest in walking the dogs,so he calims that she is just a friend but I say,well if she just a friend then she won`t mind phoning me now and confiming this,and she won`t mind talking to you when I am around,or at normal hours of the day and night. so he claims she just a friend and I claim he is full of crap and thanks for all replies,you just confirm what i already believed.He might of not done anything yet but he was thinking and planning on it ,especially as his work has two away days at a hotel. thankyou
2006-09-13 04:05:53 · 35 answers · asked by karenna m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I had this 'walking the dog thing' - Rubbish!
Try and get his mobile phone off him when he is asleep and check his messages. I did this and discovered he was having an affair.
I think you know really what is going on, you just don't want to admit it to yourself. Chuck him out.
No man is worth your tears and the one who is, won't make you cry.
2006-09-13 04:11:15 · answer #1 · answered by Ladyfromdrum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor thing.Men suck dont they!!Does all sound a bit dodgy im affraid.Try and get the phone number off his phone and give her a call when hes not around and try and find out the truth.Dont tell him you are doing it tho.Men are so sneaky some times.But they just arnt very good at it are they!!
Good luck with this hope you sort it out.And be strong if he is messing you about dont take any of his crap!! x
2006-09-13 04:18:34 · answer #2 · answered by jo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy Cow! I was going through something similar with my husband. He'd stay up late on the computer and come to bed like at 1 or 2 in the morning. He even went out and bought a web cam. He was chatting with this chick he works with and ended up having an affair with her. investigate a little more. Look into his emails and stuff like that. That's what I had to do.
2006-09-13 04:49:34 · answer #3 · answered by vitamin D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First i would make a trip to the same hotel and see what he's up to. If he is up to no good i would confront the little homewrecker and then go back home and pack up his stuff and have it sitting on the front lawn for him when he gets back. Change your locks. You could always set fire to his stuff if that would make you feel better. LOL. You can find someone who will treat you better. Good luck.
2006-09-13 06:58:40 · answer #4 · answered by lighthouse lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not understand why a c0-worker would be calling him at 4am. Is he a doctor? Why could she not wait until he got to work? What is all the secretness about? Watch out for the just a friends sometimes friends can become lovers
2006-09-13 04:32:19 · answer #5 · answered by confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it's ultimatum time! This sounds so familiar to me - experience of a previous relationship that ended with secretive phone calls and lots of 'overtime' at work. You need to pin him down and force him to tell the truth - for your own sake of mind.
2006-09-13 04:16:32 · answer #6 · answered by Roxy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like i said before kick his sorry *** to the curb n get yourself a real man betta still get a rabbit from ann summers it dont answer back n wont cheat on u lol
just kidding id say tell him to leave u alone ur worth more than the bullshit this guys coming out with n if you know this girl tell her shes nowt but a scank to be messing around with some 1 elses guy woman like her repulse me
2006-09-13 05:14:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry hun, but like you said yourself you know the truth you just have to admit it to yourself. He's cheating on you and the faster you end this the more quicker you can find a better guy how deserves you and appreciates you.
2006-09-13 08:52:33 · answer #8 · answered by sabs_yaq 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer to your question sweetie. Time to leave, don't ya think. Have some respect for yourself and find someone who will love and respect you. They're out there. Life is too short.
2006-09-13 04:12:54 · answer #9 · answered by smile4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey it's no good. Just leave him. Let her have him. Once a cheat always a cheat. Pack his stuff and send it with him to her house.
Good luck and this will give you the freedom to find someone who will respect you and love you for who you are.
God Bless
2006-09-13 04:11:00 · answer #10 · answered by cinson1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋