my boyfriend ex girlfriend is having his kid help?

Question

my boyfriend i just met a month ago has found out his ex girlfriend is having his child but she has told us she has 209 days to go i dont think its his because she left him over a month ago and the last time they had sex which is by what he says is over three months ago and she had sex with her ex husband what can we do to find out if its his?

Answer 1

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Answer 2

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Answer 3

When the child is born he will have to have a DNA test done. There are many labs that offer this service. I would even check into having this done before she fills out the birth certificate information. He will have to go to court to have his name removed from the birth certificate if it is not his. Maybe the hospital would do one. It can't hurt to ask. If she gets mad at him then so be it. Let her get mad. She sounds like a real winner anyway. Still with her ex husband, ex boyfriend...... Maybe you should step back and look at this situation and RUN WHILE YOU STILL CAN.

Answer 4

First of all let me be the one to burst your bubble you won't get info until after the baby is born and in the mean time could you sit down and think about this situation as an adult. Ok she the one pregnant not you threrefore but out and let him handle his bussiness. I hate when new g/f all of a sudden know everything and it just irk's the heck out of me when these guys start screming I'm not the Daddy when half the time they really are.If I was you and I'm not mind you I would definately tell this man that if it is his kids he will support it til it is 18 and smile because he is man enough to stick it in he should be man enough to take responsibilty.After which time I think young lady you should seriously think about your own circumstances because if he's saying it isn't his now what will he do if you your self get into the family way later on? Can you take care of your self and a dependent child without running home to mom and dad? Grow up and look out the window the world is your oyster now don't wait to long to make your life complete. You don't need a man to make you happy but they sure will drag you down in the dirt and throw mud balls if they get the chance. This woman is in bad shape if she is asking for his help so I would help them both and frankly step out of that picture and let them go to it. Too much drama for my peace of mind and it lasts for a lifetime enjoy it but its not for me.

Answer 5

Knowing the facts (and if your bf is telling the truth) this kid hisn't his. He just need to have a DNA test when the baby is born. Don't let him take this responsibility until the test confirms he's actually the father. If the ex gf gets too demanding, they can have those tests done in the unborn child too...though I have heard it could be painful for the mother and somehow risky for the baby...that will chill her out.

Answer 6

wait until the baby is born paternity test. if you find out he lied about the time of sex... deal with it when that comes. a lot of people have sex with their ex's at times they feel attracted to them still sexually. There are certain chemicals etc that is released in teh brain regardless how much they fight or hate each other if they are chemically attracted it happens and then the sex is over and they are over with each other.

Answer 7

I think it's too risky to ask doctors to do a paternity test with baby still in the womb, you'll have to wait until it's out and find out then.

I would ask for the doctors information and call to confirm time frames etc., they tend to be more honest as they are not biased.

Answer 8

wow girl you are in a pickle been there done that. ALL you can do is wait till the baby is born then get test done. I just hope YOU are not let down because IF he lied to you on the last time he slept with her. Like I said been there done that. BEST WISHES

Answer 9

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This is probably the most important part. With texting, you can stop and think about what you want to say to your ex at each step of the way. Instead of reacting emotionally, you can take your time, figure out the right thing to say (I’ll give you most of it), and be strategic with your ex without saying something that you’ll regret.

Answer 10

Girl, run away! What makes you think he wouldn't do you the same way. My ex-husband did this to me (got an old girlfriend prego's) while we where married. He then cheated on me with her again....and eventually left me and my child to be with her (then came back, then left, then came back etc..) two children later I decided to leave and have never been happier. I devoted my time to my children and focused on them and life has never better!