ok i am 18 and no man as of yet can make me orgazim. now is there something wrong with me or him? or is it that I am insatisable? I need answers and advice lol. please!!!
THANKS
2006-09-13 03:55:27 · 21 answers · asked by A Wild Native American Woman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
show your man how he should make you orgasm, a demonstration will turn him on.....
2006-09-13 03:58:20 · answer #1 · answered by lakmii 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you can make yourself, then maybe you are too nervous with your boyfriend, and you put too much pressure on yourself to have on. Is the old shower head working? If so then maybe as I said you need to relax a little. If you are not able to make yourself get off then you may need to see a doctor and find out if there is something not right. It may just me he needs to watch you do it so that he can see what is going on, and where what ever you are using is "hitting". Try going to a "toy" store and get a $ 12 vibrator (takes AA or AAA size battery's) and that just maybe what will bring one on. Good luck
2006-09-13 11:07:59 · answer #2 · answered by wmkinger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you are just one of those type of women that don't have orgasms from penetration only. Oral sex or self pleasure general is the only way to get a a orgasm in these cases. But if you have done these things as well and still don't have orgasms then something is very wrong. Try talking to your GYN doctor.
2006-09-13 11:02:18 · answer #3 · answered by liliw24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that in order for you to reach an orgasm your mind has to be set right. It takes a combination of romance which has to be put in your mind and heart and physical friction in order to arouse sexual desires. Maybe you or your partner do not get into the right mental state in order to arouse your desires enough. This is what I think but experiment until you find what makes you tick. Ciao for now!
2006-09-13 11:01:28 · answer #4 · answered by Ickey J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no there is nothing wrong with you. Try to spice things up. Use toys while yall are having sex. Make sure there is a lot of clit stimulations most men think just having sex is enough. That don't do it for women we need the touching and alot of foreplay.
2006-09-13 11:11:52 · answer #5 · answered by JUSTME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might be physical, might be mental. You ARE able to orgasm, right? Through self-manipulation? If so then perhaps it's your own comfort zone. May be it's your choice in men? Maybe you need something spicier. Try something new! Enjoy and good luck.
2006-09-13 11:02:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is quite normal, I think the stats are that only 30% of woman can climax during intercourse. Try not to concerntrate on it, just go with it and it will come naturaly
2006-09-13 10:59:55 · answer #7 · answered by zzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read books about the female "O". There are several different reasons why you may not be able to. If you understand your body more you can achieve your goal.
2006-09-13 10:59:08 · answer #8 · answered by Billy! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is quite natural NOT to feel orgasmic. However, you may do a bit of work on yourself. It may be improper to write the full detail here.
2006-09-13 10:58:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to do it urself , that way u'll figure out what pleases u and than u can coordinate with Ur bf. If u never done it try watching adult movies.
2006-09-13 11:00:58 · answer #10 · answered by leed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to watch the show cathouse on HBO they help women reach orgasim and help men to give a woman an orgasim. maybe u should rent some pornos and practice on urself to see what turns u on. some women take longer to orgasim than others.
2006-09-13 10:59:32 · answer #11 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋