I had an abortion and my parents think I was forced into it, how can i prove to them that i wasn't forced into it, it was a decision made by me and my partner, but they can't see it, please help. x
2006-09-13 03:48:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i don't know what to say babe they should believe you Ur there daughter for fcuk sake.
i will always love you no matter what you the bested mate i could ever have and i coulden't wish for any think else luv u kyz XxXxXxXxX
2006-09-13 03:55:56 · answer #1 · answered by Bipolar-Bird88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart your parents grieve for the unborn child
that would had been their grandchild
they are suffering inside for the life of that child
just pray and ask God to help them
come to understand that you did not want your baby
And I will also pray for you honey that you will come to understand the depth of what they feel
so you can feel it too
Human life must be preserved.
And we are our brother's keepers
your baby has been given a name and has
also been baptized , because a soul is involved
the soul comes from God
And the soull will return back from where it came
Sorry that you do not have a deep understanding
about what abortion truly is.
If you do not want life growing inside you
because you do not want to raise a child
just give it up for adoption and pray for the child
to have a good life
please do not ever do that again little girl
2006-09-13 03:59:34 · answer #2 · answered by Queen A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with the answers given so far. You shouln't have to prove anything. They are just going to have to accept the fact that you made a decision. They love you as thier daughter and sometimes parents have a hard time with the truth. Good luck, and best wishes.
2006-09-13 03:56:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they are wanting to fool themselves into thinking that you were forced into it. That way it makes it "okay" in some way. That someone "forced" you to do it, isn't the same as you wanting to do it. Are they religious??
You need to let them know that you were not forced into it. That it was you who made the decision, not anyone else. Let them know you are done discussing the issue and you do not want to speak of it again, unless you want to talk about it.
2006-09-13 04:03:35 · answer #4 · answered by little fairy lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was your body and you had the final say in it. The big problem lies later in life as you look back and consider that you denied the child of life. This is a big thing to live with and you will end up realizing that later.
I am a pro life person because I wanted my wife to abort my second son. She didn't and he later died at 19 years old. I wouldn't of traded his contibution to our family and our lives for anything. Please think and practice safer sex in the future. You do have a choice during conception.
God Bless
2006-09-13 04:07:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you have to prove anything to your parents?
More to the point, why do they distrust what you are telling them? Does your partner have a history of controlling you?
Sounds to me like they are worried for you!
2006-09-13 03:56:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that abortion is wrong ... but there isnt anyway to prove that ... You are just going to have to stick by your word and make then realize that it was your choice to have it done and no body elses!!!
2006-09-13 04:11:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only Time can heal this one Honey. Your parents are probaly just really upset , that you had the abortion , just give them some time. Thing should get better.
2006-09-13 03:56:42 · answer #8 · answered by lilredhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems to be one of those "only time can heal" situations, i know as advice that sucks but in life it works, if you try too hard to show them it was your choice it makes it appear more like your covering, so let time be the healer. I hope that helps. Best of luck for you and your partner.
2006-09-13 03:51:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep repeating yourself,
they refuse to beleive it because in their mind it a failure and it is theirs
well It is your body you do what was best for you at the time
explain that to them that it was your choice and you are sorry if you hurt them by making this decission and it is no way reflect on your upbringing
Good Luck
2006-09-13 04:59:43 · answer #10 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋