.....being together with the one whom you love very much,or being together with the one who love you very much?
2006-09-13 03:38:52 · 20 answers · asked by curio 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What if they are not the same persons....and what's the rational behind your answers?
2006-09-13 03:47:18 · update #1
being together with the one who loves you very much. Life is simpler that way. We all have moods and expectations. Naturally you have more expectations from the one whom u love than the one who loves you. If yr expectations are not met u tend to feel unhappy whereas the one who loves u will do anything to make u happy so just let your expectations be known in a subtle manner and u are not going to be dissapointed. Now take moods...u r in a bad mood...the one whom u love will find it difficult to accept while the one who loves you will probably understand and leave u alone.... If u r in good mood and the one whom u love isnt...failed expectations.. whereas the one who loves u will again try to adjust wi9th your moods
2006-09-13 03:47:19 · answer #1 · answered by bore2death 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on what you want in a relationship determines how happy or how content you would be under each situation.
Anyone in a relationship that is serious and in love should want someone to care for them the same as they care for that person.
Having lopsided love doesn't bring happiness or contentment but problems and confusion.
If someone loves you very much and shows it and you don't really love them enough to show it your going to have a problem.
So, I would prefer a even playing field in the game of love where If I love someone very much that they feel the same way that I do.
2006-09-13 03:50:09 · answer #2 · answered by words from the heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think the most happiness and contentment would be to love each other very much. Not one loving more than the other.
2006-09-13 03:42:19 · answer #3 · answered by lindsay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on individual. For me it is being together with the one I love very much. It is a very special feeling coz you really hope that every second you be together with this person.
2006-09-13 03:43:40 · answer #4 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a tough one
See what you went and done now? Here I am sittting here thinking about it...
Are you happy to see him in love?....Good
Now is he happy being in love?Probably not. Cause if you dont love him than you arent treating him as good as you should.If a man truly loves you,which is hard to find,you better try to get in love with him.....quick.
2006-09-13 03:49:04 · answer #5 · answered by Peaches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if the feelings are mutual. But for most women, which we mostly let our heart lead us, we probably would want to be with the one WE love
2006-09-13 03:42:12 · answer #6 · answered by superbad~honeydip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone loves you and you don't love them, it's really not anything. The best relationship is obviously one where both people love each other.
2006-09-13 03:58:01 · answer #7 · answered by Sausage Fingers™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By it self neither will bring happiness long term. Have to have both to have long term happiness and contentment
2006-09-13 03:44:16 · answer #8 · answered by Sue B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one you love.
2006-09-13 03:43:14 · answer #9 · answered by Billy! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a two way traffic.
If you love someone and he/she doesnt reciprocate..it hurts. If someone loves you and you dont reciprocate or even worse...you dont even know that the other person loves you..it hurts the other person.
So..Love is about loving and being loved...
2006-09-13 03:41:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋