nd i dnt think its love......
2006-09-13 03:22:17 · 11 answers · asked by Aparna B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Share your caring nature with someone who cares about you back. Some people are just mean, and will never change. Forget about him/her .. and find someone nice to care about . Good Luck ! :)
2006-09-13 03:25:04 · answer #1 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello there,
If you intuitively feel that this person does not harbor the same feelings towards you as you do towards him, then perhaps it may be time to take stock of your own feelings about yourself.
You should do some introspection to figure out why it is that feelings of love and care well up in you whenever you see or even think about this person. Have you seen it happening in your immediately family sometime, while you were growing up? Or you saw this same pattern in the life of somebody who you hold as an icon? This is just conjecture, but it is possible that you may have subconsciously adopted the attitude pattern of somebody in your immediate surroundings.
Once you have done this deep thinking about your own personality, see how you can get over it and move on in life. The best thing about this world is that it is teeming with millions of individuals, one of whom might be perfectly compatible with you, and where the wavelengths match.
There must have been some purpose why this particular person entered your life. See if this purpose has been fulfilled. It could be possible that the two of you continue to see each other, but from this moment on, you may continue with your existence, but without now carrying the (unwanted) baggage of one-way affection.
Hth, and all the best. :)
2006-09-13 03:39:12 · answer #2 · answered by ssjagrawal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't put yourself out there for someone who is mean. Find a good man who will not only love you and respect you, but he has a kind heart as well. Life is too short to be dealing with b.s. and this isn't something that you should have to put up with. There are plenty of guys out there who would love to go out with you. Don't even waste your time investing in something that will not exist.
2006-09-13 04:09:18 · answer #3 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is simply, either they are putting a wall up, due to
past pain or they are not interested to keep you around.
I would lay it on the line (Your feelings).
They can take it or leave it, you have one life to live.
2006-09-13 03:26:57 · answer #4 · answered by marnold7714 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't put your self out there like that. He obviously is an asss hole and dosnt care about you. Find your self a good man. I wish it were easy to find good women but because of men like him it makes it hard for men like me to get a good woman
2006-09-13 03:24:44 · answer #5 · answered by unkown 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how can you care for a person who is mean?? if he doesnt care about you then let him be stop letting him waste your time and move on. some people r just mean. its his loss not yours. good luck
2006-09-13 03:33:06 · answer #6 · answered by angel eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,aparna u should know wether a particular person cares for u or not. if not then just leave him/her. look for some1 else,thats it!!!
2006-09-13 03:26:04 · answer #7 · answered by sankalp_1987 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then who cares you have aready soloved your on problem all the best
2006-09-13 03:25:34 · answer #8 · answered by playful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl what r u smokin. leave, no man is worth that
2006-09-13 03:24:42 · answer #9 · answered by shadowpaws2003 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
kiss him and find out
2006-09-13 03:23:47 · answer #10 · answered by Kurt 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋