we're married for almost 10 years and had 1 child.
2006-09-13 03:14:26 · 12 answers · asked by Yeng 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There are alot of guys that have a hard time saying the 'I love you' words or anything else describing how they feel about their wives or girlfriends.
I am sure after almost 10years of marriage that there is love there.
He may not say it in words,but if you watch and listen you will see it and hear it.
Word aren't always the best things,it's the way he looks at you,touches you and hold you that really tells all.My husband and I are about to celebrate 12 years of marriage,he doesn't say that he loves me but with his actions I know that he truely does love me.
2006-09-13 03:32:02 · answer #1 · answered by missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't respond every time you tell him that you love him then maybe he isn't feeling that way anymore. If it's only rare times that he doesn't respond then maybe his head is elsewhere. I have been married for 13 years and there isn't a day that we don't tell each other that we love each other. And then there are some people that if they are not feeling that way they will not tell you, even if that's what you want to hear. I respect people that don't respond just because they think they should. If i were you ask him flat out what he is feeling about you two. You have a right to know how he is feeling and you have the right to express your feelings. just tell him that it is making you feel unloved and unwanted.
2006-09-13 10:23:05 · answer #2 · answered by cassandra b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. His childhood may not have been blessed with loving affection and words. He may be a very private person with intimacy problems. Look to his actions in the last 10 years. Has he been a good provider & partner? Has he been faithful? Does he treat you with consideration? Does he let his child know that he loves and cares for him? Often, actions speak louder than words. Many men say, "I Love You", and then they go out a commit adultery, abuse etc...
2006-09-13 10:19:28 · answer #3 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say he don't love you because that is hard to make that call because no one knows exactly how someone else feels ,but some men have a hard time showing their feelings,although unless he just started having this problem ,then I would question his response ,I have experienced this in my past where a man had no problem telling me he loved me for years then he started being unemotional toward me an unfortunately I later found out he had someone else in mind an we did divorce,and also consider he may have some things that is truly bothering him an he is depressed ,there is so much to question here but I would start investigating your relationship an find out soon because it is torture to wonder everyday if someone loves you!!
2006-09-13 10:24:12 · answer #4 · answered by SANDY G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why isn't he responding to you? Maybe your relationship has become stagnant. He might feel so comfortable with you that he doesn't feel the need to put forth any effort. You need to find subtle ways to fire things up and let him know that he needs to give you feedback on these things. Women are creatures that, unfortunately, thrive on reinforcement. Do some reading on things that you can experiment with to get some spice back in your life. There is no way for us to know if he loves you less or not, that's for you to find out on your own. If you try and try and still get no response, it might behoove you to seek marriage counselling.
2006-09-13 10:21:06 · answer #5 · answered by Caroslin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words is the old cliche and its true. Look at him as a whole package, if this is your only problem with the relationship than I think that you should count your blessings
2006-09-13 10:21:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married for 10 years and you don't know the answer to that question. Hmm.
2006-09-13 10:16:51 · answer #7 · answered by Josie31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know if he heard you?
Alot of times men can be looking straight at you and never hear a word you say.
Next time you say it ask "honey did you hear me" I said i love you.
If he dosent respond then you got problems.
2006-09-13 10:18:24 · answer #8 · answered by bree30 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if you have to ask anyone on here if he loves you.. then obviously you have a problem... work on your marriage.. talk to him about it!
2006-09-13 10:16:56 · answer #9 · answered by lily 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its action that speaks louder than words
2006-09-13 10:19:38 · answer #10 · answered by terri e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋