Should I trick him I am pregnant?

Question

I am not and would never get pregnant with a boyfriend, but I wonder about his reaction, it's just interesting to play with other people.
Have anybody done that and what was your man reaction?

Answer 1

Are you being serious?? Obviously for the normal people in this world .. the answer would be NO! You really need to take some time to grow up some. If you can't handle a relationship with honesty, but can only use little games .. then you shouldn't be in one.

Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel

Answer 2

Women ruin their lives and the life of their child/children when they play this game. You are playing a deadly game when you try to manipulate a man this way. You should never have to play this game. A man who willingly wants a child in his life is more willingly to be an active part in this child's life. You risk raising this child alone. If you love yourself and even the idea of a baby you will give him or her the benefit of having a stable home with two loving parents who are committed through marriage. Don't play that game you end of losing and so does the baby.

I had a friend who tried this with a loser live in boyfriend. She had five children with him. Her life is a struggle. He kicked her out and the children. They have and on going court battle for legal matters. Is this what you want for you a child?

If you have to play this game then the man isn't worth keeping. Don't ruin your life. Personally I am worth more. The man I have a baby with is going to do so willingly in the commitment in marriage. How would you like if someone bound and gagged you and made you rob a bank? Don't violate someone like that.

Answer 3

Nope never done that mainly because it's not a nice thing to do when it's comes down to other peoples emotions. Therefore I think you should re-think this cause it's not cool to mess with peoples emotions. Besides I'm sure you wouldn't like him to play any games of this nature on you. This is a serious matter that could really make him mad if you play this trick on him.

Answer 4

Honestly.... NOOOOOOOO

Sure it might fun to think about the what ifs..... but it isn't very nice to play with someones emotions... it just isn't a very nice thing to do.

Especially after you just said "I am not and would never get pregnant with a boyfriend" If you want to know what his reaction would be, ASK HIM what he would do "IF" - it is asking for trouble to play this mean trick on him =)

Best of luck

Answer 5

well I know alot of ppl are against it, and so am I now cause I did it, and I tell you it ruined my life, I told the guy I was with at the time, cause I knew he liked someone else better, so I trapped him, well I was with him for 5 yrs, and every so often when I would start my periods I would break down and cry and say I lost it, and he would feel awful, I knew how much he really wanted a child ok, and one day I went to the hosiptal was feeling really sick, and guess what I was pregnant, the guy I was with found out I lied to him and thought I was lieing to him then, left me, 9 months later I had our child and he did not want nothing to do with me or his new born daughter, and now I am single with a child who is 12yrs old, she knows who her father is and when she does get to see him, he turns the other way, and it kills me inside to see my daughter without her dad, and knowing I caused it, so pls think before you say something stupid and you get hurt, better yet a little one that will get hurt, no reason to trap a bf when he does not want you.

Answer 6

This is a foul thing to do to a guy. Normally it will get you a lot of distance from him and maybe never see him again.
It makes the guy instantly review his relationship, the goals and wants of his life. Shocking him is what you are trying to do.
I expect if you do this it will go badly. It is lieing, it is a kind of betrayal of trust.
Expect the boyfriend to be an ex boyfriend really quickly.

Answer 7

Alright...first off, that's a horrible thing to do. "Play with him"? About being pregnant? That falls into the "psycho" girlfriend category. You might lose him if he finds out you were "just kidding". Pregnancy for men has a MUCH different impact on men then women. Our whole world changes when you tell us. It's 2 tons of stress placed directly onto our shoulders out of nowhere. That's like walking up to someone and telling them you just saw their mother being taken away in an ambulance. Not cool.

Answer 8

My husband married a girl one time because she told she was pregnant...she was not. She tricked him into it, then 4 months later ended up pregnant. He found out that she lied to him to get him to marry her, he went and filed for divorce, not knowing whether she was really pregnant the second time or not. Now, he gets to see his son two times a month, because of her tricking him in the first place.

Answer 9

That's a serious thing to say to someone and I don't think most men would find it to be funny. Don't put that kind of stress on someone. If you play with someones feelings expect the same in return. Be ready to lose your man if you mess around like that.

Answer 10

If you where my girlfriend and you did that to me.. my life would flash before my eyes.. I would say goodbye to the single life... and I would probably ask you to marry my. After I find out the truth I would kick you to the curb and file a restraining order.. I would be a mere shell of my former self... and never trust women again :3