my soon to be 14 year old told me she is bisexual. that kissing a girl or boys feels the same. now i have a gay son that was hard to handle, now my daughter. or is she just going through a phash
2006-09-13 02:52:43 · 11 answers · asked by mbolm2001 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Teens today are alot more educated. Be glad that she's even telling you. Not many teens have that type of relationship with their parents. If she were doing it to impress the boys, she wouldn't be telling you about it. As for it being the "cool" thing? If that person knew what it felt like to walk in those shoes, they'd be singing a different tune. How is it cool to be made fun of, put down, lose your children, your friends, your job, and maybe even your family? Support your daughter in whatever she does because you only get one family and that family you love unconditionally. React negatively and she'll think twice about telling you things in the future.
2006-09-13 05:47:20 · answer #1 · answered by lynnca1972 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's kind of hard to say that it's the "in" thing to be bisexual or gay when this "trend" has been more and more prevalent for 15 years or more. Teens like to experiment with things. Maybe she is bi. You're still going to love her the same.
I experimented as a teen with girls, and to this day I still have the ability to be aroused by them, but I have a definite preference toward men.
She will eventually choose a preference too.
2006-09-13 03:19:00 · answer #2 · answered by sunnylinnfree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 13 and i don't think people my age know what the like till they get older i mean first of that's just sick to be with the same sex and 2nd of how in the hell do u know at that age for now just let her do what she wants if u lock her up the more bound she is to doing what u told her not to do i think its just a phase but just try to keep a good watch on her but don't put her in a glass box
2006-09-13 10:26:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being Bi is a fad now adays. Do you remember being 14? I'm sure you tried a little of everything developing who you are today. I went through this stage right after high school though. They just keep getting younger and younger now huh? Also, she may just be doing it to catch some boys attention. Boys love that BS and girls that do it. Talk to her and see if she's doing this from general curiosity or for the wrong reasons(boys).
2006-09-13 03:00:45 · answer #4 · answered by bird_e80 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not a phase, its the in thing to be gay, bisexual whatever. ur goin to have to approach this one very carefully. im pregnant with my son and it bothers me everyday to think im bringing him into this world where they think being gay is cool and he might pick that crap up! i would take her to a ob/gyn doctor and expose her to all the different diseases that bi's and gays are exposed to. then keep a close eye on her when shes around girls. get her involved in church and have her read scriptures every night.
2006-09-13 03:01:05 · answer #5 · answered by foxzie006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre daughter is more than likley going through a phase... i at did the same thing at her age... it was a phase. but just in case be supportive of her. from what you said about your son i assume you are a very supportive parent. good luck
2006-09-13 07:55:45 · answer #6 · answered by amber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are loads of Bisexual people at my school it might just be a phase but it might not i'm 14 and i'm not sure about my sexuality she might be experimenting but who knows just see what happens and support her with whatever she chooses :-)
xXx Charlie xXx
2006-09-13 07:30:09 · answer #7 · answered by Charlie V 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it could be a phase maybe she is trying to find herself she`s probably confuse b/c her brother is gay and she might think that maybe she could be. Just don`t worry she is your daughter so love her for who she is
2006-09-14 04:44:57 · answer #8 · answered by flaw236 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they could be trying to get guys. I like bisexual girls
2006-09-15 13:20:42 · answer #9 · answered by kairi fanboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sure hope that you know the Lord, because that's what it's going to take nowadays. Get on your knees now, and get to praying. If you don't know the Lord, and would like to, please contact me ASAP! In the meantime, I will be praying for your family.
God Bless!
2006-09-13 05:17:04 · answer #10 · answered by Tiffany 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋